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How can I get rid of this toxic person? 25.2.5 > 38

freya97

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Richard Wilhelm ~

Hexagram 25

Line 2

If one does not count on the harvest while plowing,
Nor on the use of the ground while clearing it,
It furthers one to undertake something.

We should do every task for its own sake as time and place demand and not with an eye to the result. Then each task turns out well, and anything we undertake succeeds.

Line 5

Use no medicine in an illness
Incurred through no fault of your own.
It will pass of itself.

An unexpected evil may come accidentally from without. If it does not originate in one's own nature or have a foothold there, one should not resort to external means to eradicate it, but should quietly let nature take its course. Then improvement will come of itself.


That makes me think that life will run its course and everything will be OK in the right time. That doesn't seem to be indicating any specific action to be taken.
What are your thoughts?
 

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Yes, plus stay busy and focused on your goals and you are less likely to get sucked into their drama.
 

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25>38 simply says: don't have anything to do with this person, take distance, like a stranger.
 

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Thinking about 38 with it's description of two siblings who have totally different life paths yet must accommodate each other while they live under the same roof...
Maybe this is advice for how to navigate around this toxic person if you some how have to share space with them. (Do you work together? Same social circles?) That is, if you can't get enough distance away from them to be able to treat them like a complete stranger, at least take comfort in knowing your life path does not require you to give them more attention than you would give to someone walking around in the same house. Not your circus, not your monkey.
 
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Thinking about 38 with it's description of two siblings who have totally different life paths yet must accommodate each other while they live under the same roof...
Maybe this is advice for how to navigate around this toxic person if you some how have to share space with them. (Do you work together? Same social circles?) That is, if you can't get enough distance away from them to be able to treat them like a complete stranger, at least take comfort in knowing your life path does not require you to give them more attention than you would give to someone walking around in the same house. Not your circus, not your monkey.
Thanks Rosada. That makes more sense now ;)
 

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