how can I learn to make real contact with the people I like: 60.4

[Freya D]

dear readers,

I asked I Ching how I can make real contact with the people I like and got answer 60.4

60 is about limitations. this I understand. I dont have very strong bounderies (Im very sensitive;-))which makes me automatically be on guard a lot of the time. I wish to be more open, and make real contact, which recuires vulnarability

what do you think line 4 means? I dont really get it..it says not to be to restrained only when it comes naturally?

thanks a lot!

 

[kincadefoster]

sounds like its saying open yourself, be open to people, first energetically, then it will happen in the physical realm, and line 4, don't take it personally when people argue differently than what you believe or feel, it is just their opinion, after all..

58, the joyous lake, well thats obvious, or maybe it means throw a party

 

[Freya D]

thanks Kincadefoster,

Ive already experienced a new vibe while meeting new people..its very simple advice, open up..but it is that simple.. I feel quickly like its too much when I share about myself but how else can you get to know someone?

 

[ginnie]

I think people these days have the idea that friendships and relationships should happen very quickly, but in my experience that is not true. It takes a long time to become friends or to have a relationship. You may be able to have a facebook friend instantly, but a real friend takes time. So don't worry about opening up and all the rest of it. If you are meant to have real contact then make that your intention. Over time you will get better at it!