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Was my response to the question titled for this thread. I have been seeing G since January, and things have started to get really close between us, but this past week I feel he is still at a really cautious stage. I invited him three times this week to spend time together. I have been really supportive and sweet with him because well I am in love with him still. He reciprocates, but sometimes I feel like we are at the beginning again.
I invited him over last night, and said I wanted to make soup and bannock for him and just saying really sweet things to him because he is sick and I want to take care of him. But he made excuses... And that's fine but he's still not totally there with me if you know what I mean. And that's fine but is this going anywhere, and am giving myself too much to someone that isn't as well?
Now over the past months I've been talking to someone else that I met before I started seeing G, I have recently realized I have a crush on him.. And lately I've been thinking more about if me and G really are compatible. We get along great, we both have the same goals and are doing the same thing to achieve them , so we are compatible In out practical ways and I like that. But we still have out differences one the biggest being that I'm an shy introvert and he's an outgoing extrovert. He's going to school to be an accountant and I'm going to school to be a social worker, he values money and nice things highly and I'm like the same but I chose a career that doesn't pay alot lol. Mostly I just want to be happy.
And I'm spiritual and he's not which is fine, because I don't need my partner to believe In the same things as I do. I think that differences are what makes a relationship exciting. Being the shy one its weird how I am the more random, free spirited type and he's the conservative one.. We still both enjoy adventure,but for his sake it better be planned lol.
Anyways back to the guy I have a crush on.. We are compatible in our ways, and he is very handsome
but I told him I am seeing my ex and now he's backed waaay off and I'm kind of sad because well I'm curious. It makes me question my connection with Gary and if I am considered in the ways I consider him and if we are too different to be in a successful relationship. We are both intensely loyal as you can tell, we haven't been able to stay parted for more than a year.. We keep going back to each other.
Okay so right now I don't know how to be with him because of all that..
I do feel like I am putting my heart into it this time though, maybe I had my regrets last time we ended our relationship and I want to be supportive and loving. Not that I wasn't because I have always been very sweet to him but yeah
Is there any questions I should be Asking to perhaps make things a bit more clear? Not sure
Thanks
Megan:bows:
Was my response to the question titled for this thread. I have been seeing G since January, and things have started to get really close between us, but this past week I feel he is still at a really cautious stage. I invited him three times this week to spend time together. I have been really supportive and sweet with him because well I am in love with him still. He reciprocates, but sometimes I feel like we are at the beginning again.
I invited him over last night, and said I wanted to make soup and bannock for him and just saying really sweet things to him because he is sick and I want to take care of him. But he made excuses... And that's fine but he's still not totally there with me if you know what I mean. And that's fine but is this going anywhere, and am giving myself too much to someone that isn't as well?
Now over the past months I've been talking to someone else that I met before I started seeing G, I have recently realized I have a crush on him.. And lately I've been thinking more about if me and G really are compatible. We get along great, we both have the same goals and are doing the same thing to achieve them , so we are compatible In out practical ways and I like that. But we still have out differences one the biggest being that I'm an shy introvert and he's an outgoing extrovert. He's going to school to be an accountant and I'm going to school to be a social worker, he values money and nice things highly and I'm like the same but I chose a career that doesn't pay alot lol. Mostly I just want to be happy.
And I'm spiritual and he's not which is fine, because I don't need my partner to believe In the same things as I do. I think that differences are what makes a relationship exciting. Being the shy one its weird how I am the more random, free spirited type and he's the conservative one.. We still both enjoy adventure,but for his sake it better be planned lol.
Anyways back to the guy I have a crush on.. We are compatible in our ways, and he is very handsome
but I told him I am seeing my ex and now he's backed waaay off and I'm kind of sad because well I'm curious. It makes me question my connection with Gary and if I am considered in the ways I consider him and if we are too different to be in a successful relationship. We are both intensely loyal as you can tell, we haven't been able to stay parted for more than a year.. We keep going back to each other.Okay so right now I don't know how to be with him because of all that..
I do feel like I am putting my heart into it this time though, maybe I had my regrets last time we ended our relationship and I want to be supportive and loving. Not that I wasn't because I have always been very sweet to him but yeah Is there any questions I should be Asking to perhaps make things a bit more clear? Not sure
Thanks
Megan:bows: