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How to approach? 14.1.5 --> 44

elizabeth

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Exchanging glances & now hellos with a young man I frequently see on various routes. I asked the Yi how he sees me? Answer was Hex 31.5 Wooing --> hex 62. Preponderance of the Small.

I interpreted that to mean

(31 = wooing) He sees me as a man sees an attractive woman.

line 5, Wilhelm says "if we can not be influenced by ourselves we can not influence the outside world" --therefore one is able to influence oneself when remorse happens and one turns back to examine self and adjust/correct the acts or thoughts or emotions.
Refers to the neck as symbolic connection between heaven and earth.

Not clear the significance of this line.

Hex 62--Mountain is restraining, limiting and stopping while thunder is active free, movement. So there is tension and restrictive movement here. The overall is excess Yin. So weakness does not allow big results. One must pay attention to details.

---> would this mean HE is weak, too weak to approach me but has noticed my presence?

Other interpretations?

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Then I asked what approach I should take towards him? (with the broad sense of, stay away or not, in my mind)

Answer: 14.1.5 and 44.

line 1: "Devoid of the ability to properly communicate is a hindrance but not harmful. It just makes work that much harder. No blame." Ie. It's not easy to approach him but possible?? If you should want to??
line 5: The hearts of the people are won, not by force and repression, but by benevolence and philanthropy. But when the benevolent man is too readily accessible, he may well be treated with insolence; and insolence can only be kept in check by careful maintenance of dignity at all times.

and 44 as the female principal advancing of its own accord to meet the male. Although it signifies the pleasure of sexual intercourse, it also contains elements of danger.
Coming together, meaning the woman is in power. A marriage in such circumstances would be unfavourable.

I take that to mean Do Not APproach him. Continue with small hellos and that's it?

Anyone else?
 

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Elizabeth,

I would say about 14- 44 -- that if you are prepared for a sexual encounter with not much else to it, go ahead and approach him. If you want something deeper, I don't think you'll find it with this man. Hee hee, I know all about 44!

Best for your Quest
 

elizabeth

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Ugh! Thanks Anita. I await the day when the Yi responds to an inquiry about a man with something other than "Nothing long term/no commitment here". But then, I guess most men are that way. *sigh*. No thanks. Not looking for cheap thrills.
 

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