I dare you to interpret this one

[esolo]

"What is his biggest fear and anxiety about me?"

50.6 to 32

How can that line be a "fear and anxiety"? He fears things going really well? That's all I see here.

 

[hilary]

Not just things going really well, but also things lasting. Jade never corrodes, always keeps its lustre. If you're sure he is afraid of something, then that could be it.

 

[magictortoise]

Hexagram 50 is one of a few hexagrams dealing with nourishment. Also one of the few which have a concrete man-made image associated with it. So in addition to what Hilary has pointed out I would say there is a nourishment issue here and also a fear about the material aspects of the relationship. Maybe he fears he couldn't provide well for you or that at a deeper level not be able to nourish you. Or maybe it is just all too good to be true, from his view.

Ken

 

[atri ob]

50,6

I interpret it as a fear of commitment, within this context.

 

[willowfox]

Perhaps he finds you too strong and determined, a person who just will not stop, maybe he thinks you are too controlling and bossy. Stubborn comes to mind, and so does being overly tough and hard, you won't give in.

 

[fkegan]

What for a man to fear in hex 50.6>>32?

Hex 50, The Ting in Wilhelm is about an ancient Chinese altar where food offerings were ceremonially served. Hex 32 is about marriage. This is a quite literal oracle of a major celebration around an altar leading to a long term committed marriage relationship. In my correspondence with the Sabian symbols, this line becomes the symbol for 18 Aries, an empty hammock.
From a man's point of view this would suggest a fear he would be called upon to get married and have to give up his comfortable free time in his hammock (today watching big screen TV in a Lazy Boy recliner) to do chores as a husband.
Even the way you phrase your discussion "I dare you to interpret this one" would suggest there are major issues afoot having more to do with your lack openness to other viewpoints than anything else . I would strongly suggest you inquire of the Oracle how to be a better friend or at least less dogmatic.:bows:

 

[dobro p]

"What is his biggest fear and anxiety about me?"

50.6 to 32

He's afraid of lasting transformation in relation to you.

You wanna marry him or something? Geez...

 

[Tohpol]

Even the way you phrase your discussion "I dare you to interpret this one" would suggest there are major issues afoot having more to do with your lack openness to other viewpoints than anything else. I would strongly suggest you inquire of the Oracle how to be a better friend or at least less dogmatic.:bows:

I agree. It might help, as has been said before, to start communicating with your partner by asking these questions directly. These issues will not go away unless they are talked about.

Topal

 

[martin]

With this answer I would seriously consider the possibility that he has no fears/anxiety about you or that it is irrelevant. Jade seems 'fearless'.

Perhaps it's a good idea to ask yourself why you believe he has (if you believe that) or why you think it is important.

 

[gene]

"Nothing that would not act to further."

He fears your success.

Gene

 

[dobro p]

"Nothing that would not act to further."

He fears your success.

Gene

Ha! Good call. lol

 

[auriel]

afraid of you being self-sufficient- he wants to build up a dependency relationship by keeping you off balance about him. it wont work though.