I need help 36 to 14

[pammy]

Hi
I really need some help!
A little history. 2 months ago, I stated dating a man that I have known for 2 years. We were both in a group of people that got together during Monday night football. We always joked around and flirted but nothing outside of Monday night football. Well, one night he told me that he secretly was interested in me.. but was afraid to act on it until now. In short... we started dating. Since that first date.. he has called me everyday, we see each other about 3 or 4 times a week. Yes.. we are intimite. And he spends most of this time off with me.
Now... recently.. he started up on facebook ( I set him up and put all of this pictures up for him).
Today.. I tempted to go into my face book.. and his book came up !!!!!!
I just found out that he has been emailing all these old girlfriends from high school
Ok.. great.
But... today.. we talked about going out after his workout. and I just saw.. that he made a date with a girl for tonight.
My question
What should I do about this situation with x 36/2/4/6 =14
What do I need to know ... I got 7
Thank you for any insight

 

[dobro p]

Keeping it all under your hat is a great possession.

You need to be strong as an army.

 

[meng]

Wow. Well, I think you violated one of the most primal rules of evolution: Never show off your man to other women. But, look at the bright side, you weeded him out before you invested too much of yourself. Unless you could live with his free living style, perhaps as a friend? Maybe he'll mature. Most importantly, take care of you, and don't let this harm your sense of self worth.

 

[pammy]

Thank you both..
He came through last night... guess guilt took over. Called and said he ran into an "old high school friend".. haveing a quick drink .. and will be over soon. I told him.. if he rather spend the evening with his "old friend".. go ahead and I will meet up with some of my friends.
He said.. no.. that he wanted to spend the evening with me. Maybe I over reacted.. but, I have my eyes wide open right now.. and stepping back some. I don't think I know this guy well enough yet .
I did not tell him that he left his book open....
But I did close it for him...lol
Meng.. I helped him so he could exchange with his kids who live in a different state.
Dobro...Your right ! Keeping what I know under my hat... am quitely stepping back and really observe.