In a rut

[cornucopia]

I have free time for the first time in my life to focus on my self development and my needs.

I just wanted to know what I should focus on at this stage of my life now that I can concentrate on me for once?

Hexagram 13 lines 4 and 6 changing into Hexagram 63

Does this mean I'm in a transitional period or is it telling me to discover why things start off good but for some reason end up a confusing mess in the end (hexagram 63).

Cheers!

 

[mryou1]

Hexagram 13 tells you to focus on your friendships. And to a lesser extent, organization.

line 4 indicates that at the moment making mistakes and learning for them is not to be feared, as it brings improvement

line 6 indicates that you are not as close with your friends as you'd like to be

line 4 and 6 both changing creates the XOR hexagram of 35: Progress, which means that during this time, all improvement (through mistakes, and in becoming closer with your friends) relies solely on your actions

Hexagram 63 says that this free time may not last, so it is good to work within it and prolong it, but also prepare for when it ends

 

[cornucopia]

Hi could it also mean in order to for my friendships/relationships to last long I should work on them to prolong them and also be prepared aganst misfortunate turn of events?

 

[mryou1]

Maybe, it could also mean to use the time you have wisely to further the pursuits mentioned in 13.4.6, before it is too late. But it's all a matter of interpretation.