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twilightshadow

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So, I know many people use this forum as I do, to get help with interpreting readings, and that includes using the hex search to find past readings with the same response. However, one of the most frustrating parts of that is many of the threads are never updated with the result. With this reading I’ve had one of those rare aha moments where it made perfect sense based on an interpretation I found in the hex search, so I thought I’d share in case it might help someone in the future.

The background is this was a question about someone I’ve known off and on for years. He was a sort of work friend who later became a friend with benefits, one I wanted more from. Note that over the years I’ve come to the conclusion that those aren’t friends and benefits is questionable. But that’s just MHO. Anywho I hadn’t heard from him in several years, and in the meantime I’d grown and realized he’d never been the person I built him up to be was a narcissist and a user who’d never actually been my friend. I’d even removed him from my Facebook. But one of my posts apparently popped up on that memories thing they do and he suddenly messaged me saying he hadn’t heard from me and asking how I was. I ignored and deleted it, but then I was curious or maybe just haven’t grown as much as I thought. So I asked Yi what should I do about him?

I was a bit confused with the 53.2.3.6 because the lines seemed contradictory if looked at specifically as actions I should take. But then I found an old interpretation from Rosada on someone’s post which was basically that it started out well, it then went south, and now you’ve moved on. That’s a perfect description of the situation surrounding my question.

In this case I think Yi responded as more of a conversation. Lines 2 and 3 say well, although it started out ok, it became something that was detrimental and unhealthy. Line 6 is the more direct answer of this helped you grow as a person, but now you need to move on. This, of course, is not the only way these lines could flow together; one has to view it in the context of their specific situation. But this was how it applied here, and I was able to see it clearly by shifting slightly how I was interpreting the lines.
 
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diamant

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Great analysis, thanks for sharing.
Also, 53.2.3.6 > 29. The same danger came back.
If you had replied, you would get more of the same.
 

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Hello,

53 shows a gradual progress, and 29- the context hexagram- repeating problems. 53.2: you've been together at some point & enjoyed it, 53.3: then he left, and 53.6: you (should) leave it behind & reach a better place.
 

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I have noticed a pattern of receiving multiple lines including line 6 when the situation is already wrapped up or the patterns are already clear and even though I’m inquiring it is something more of the past than the future. I looks like that was true here and that what you already have seen is what he can offer. 53.3 can at times be more of just idea etc (like a harebrained scheme or unrealistic expectation) but when it represents a person’s actual behavior it’s pretty terrible (in my experience) and does not feel good. I think you did the right thing laying it to rest.
 

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So, I know many people use this forum as I do, to get help with interpreting readings, and that includes using the hex search to find past readings with the same response. However, one of the most frustrating parts of that is many of the threads are never updated with the result.
But it seems you often don't ever return to threads yourself. Puzzled you find it frustrating yet do it yourself. There's this among others






 

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