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Yubidis

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I asked I ching what if I declare him my feeling and I got 13.3
I asked what can I expect from this relationship and I got 8 unchanged.
I asked what this feeling/situation want to teach me and I got 26 unchanged.

I m in love for someone who seems interested but doesn't take a clear action. I don t know what to do. Please help me in the interpretation.
 

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These hexagrams and lines don’t seem encouraging for you taking any action.
 

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I asked I ching what if I declare him my feeling and I got 13.3
I asked what can I expect from this relationship and I got 8 unchanged.
I asked what this feeling/situation want to teach me and I got 26 unchanged.

I m in love for someone who seems interested but doesn't take a clear action. I don t know what to do. Please help me in the interpretation.
13.3 "he hides his arms in the thick grass" you have strong feelings, but it's advantageous to keep them hidden because something in the situation would likely best you.
I take that from Legge:

"Line three is dynamic in a dynamic place, but without a proper correlate in line six. This makes him anxious to unite with line two, but two is devoted to her proper correlate in line five, of whose strength line three is afraid. Therefore he takes the measures described, but his abstaining so long from action will save him from misfortune."

Perhaps there is someone else in the picture for this person?

8 unchanged -
I often cast 8 when the Yi is asking to examine who you want to bond with, if this is really who you would like to associate with?
But also it could just be saying, there will be a relationship of some kind if you are up for the task of say, waiting.

26 - discipline & restraint
Taming desire

None of these readings suggest whether or not the other is interested but you have a clear answer it seems from the Yi not to act currently!
 
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Henry Zahir

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I asked I ching what if I declare him my feeling and I got 13.3
I asked what can I expect from this relationship and I got 8 unchanged.
I asked what this feeling/situation want to teach me and I got 26 unchanged.

I m in love for someone who seems interested but doesn't take a clear action. I don t know what to do. Please help me in the interpretation.

13.3 there is something strange about this relationship. What is is? Are you afraid to commit? Is he afraid to commit? This is about Innocence.
8uc is union. That is what you can expect. Are you ready for that?
26uc is probably putting the breaks on all the doubts and live freely as you desire. It could also mean on the 26th keep your cool, be dignified when you understand the lesson.

Update if you can! TX
 

Yubidis

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13.3 c'è qualcosa di strano in questo rapporto. Cos'è? Hai paura di impegnarti? Ha paura di impegnarsi? Si tratta di Innocenza.
8uc è unione. Questo è ciò che puoi aspettarti. Sei pronto per questo?
26uc probabilmente sta mettendo fine a tutti i dubbi e vivi liberamente come desideri. Potrebbe anche significare che il 26 mantieni la calma, sii dignitoso quando capisci la lezione.

Aggiorna se puoi! Texas
Ciao, grazie a tutti per il vostro feedback.
Henry I clearly perceive that he likes me but he doesn't do nothing to get closer. Actually I feel him to actively control his behaviors. There are moments in which he can't really help and he doesn't hold back and behaviors of clear interest emerge, but then he stops. I tried to give him signal but it doesn't seems that help for him to open up. He seems happy in the moment and probably even relaxed by the fact I m there. These are just my perceptions. I will keep you updated. Any other insight is welcome!
 

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