Is Dr. X thinking, "good riddance"? :(

[foxx777]

I very recently had to terminate therapy with my therapist of 8 months. In an email, I listed my grievances, and informed her that I and my family members, sadly, would no longer be continuing on. I made her aware that although her actions had not been specifically illegal nor unethical, they had certainly been deemed unwise by an expert, and had created pain and trauma.

I would have expected at least a formal reply, such as "Have received your statement of termination. I am sorry that you feel the therapy had become detrimental. I wish you well, and I will continue to try and provide clients with the best therapy I possibly can deliver, blah blah" or something like this.

The fact that she is dead silent is now making me suspect she is haughtily thinking, "Well, they are no longer a source of income, so good riddance, who cares how they feel". This is causing anger and hurt.

I am not sorry I terminated, and indeed was advised by an expert in the field to do so, and am relieved, but I would like to think this matters, thousands of dollars later, just a little to her. I asked the I ching, "is this in fact her true feeling, and her reason for no acknowledgement of the termination"??? from the interpretation of my casting, 57.1 > 9 below, I assume, yes, she is simply planning on her next clients:

57. Penetration
Line 1:

Advancing,
retreating.
Beneficial is a warrior's persistence.

Temporarily penetrating into a situation. Discipline and resolute decisiveness are necessary.

9. Minor Restraint

Minor restraint.
Progressing.
Dense clouds, but no rain
from our western outlands.

One is held back, but things are progressing nevertheless. There is a potential for new resources, but they are not yet coming.

 

[hopex]

Foxx I rarely think the Yi tells us what others are
thinking but tells us what we are thinking.

I remember a reading when someone asked if they got the
job - 57 is a good indicator that your foot is in the door.

I think it says you did the job well - she will consider her
response well - no doubt she feels she has failed. Your answer
will come in a small well worded way

No doubt she will be concerned about a bad report
to a higher level about her. Something tells me she
does not feel good about it.:bows:

 

[foxx777]

Foxx I rarely think the Yi tells us what others are
thinking but tells us what we are thinking.

I remember a reading when someone asked if they got the
job - 57 is a good indicator that your foot is in the door.

I think it says you did the job well - she will consider her
response well - no doubt she feels she has failed. Your answer
will come in a small well worded way

No doubt she will be concerned about a bad report
to a higher level about her. Something tells me she
does not feel good about it.:bows:

Ha, Hopex, you are a prophet! Just received an email from her, blaming herself wholly for the failures and taking full responsibility for all. Now I feel rather sad, so will send her back that she had much good to her, just too many family members in therapy was a case of too many cooks spoiling the broth. thanks so much, I would not have known that 57 indicated this, I tend to view the yi ching as saying, "you ought to do this"---yours was the more apt interpretation. By jove! thanks once more:bows:

 

[hopex]

good news Foxx - I guess they do their best but
they are only human.....

well done for handling it all so well:bows:

 

[foxx777]

good news Foxx - I guess they do their best but
they are only human.....

well done for handling it all so well:bows:

 

[ginnie]

Well done, foxx777. That was major.

 

[foxx777]

Well done, foxx777. That was major.

Thanks so much, Ginnie.

 

[goddessliss]

Hey Foxx you advanced like the warrioress that you are, made yourself clear with the intention of moving on from this situation- so whether she responded to you or not I think you have felt empowered by your actions - yay we love that sista - Liss

 

[foxx777]

Hey Foxx you advanced like the warrioress that you are, made yourself clear with the intention of moving on from this situation- so whether she responded to you or not I think you have felt empowered by your actions - yay we love that sista - Liss

thanks so much, Liss