Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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Thank you but I am so sorry I mixed up the changing line. Hexagram 50 changing line is 2. Does it change the whole story?50 with line 4, the broken pot, changes to 18. Work on what has been spoiled, so I think you can assume there is a problem here.
Hi Sneakysneak,
If there is a changing line, particularly one changing line, this is generally the one that you need to pay attention to.
One of the tricks with the iching is to frame questions so that you can receive a descriptive answer, rather than ask yes/no questions. For example: Please comment on whether a committed and fulfilling relationship with [name] can be achieved. Hopefully you can then get an answer about if it is possible and under what circumstances.
So hexagram 50 with a changing line of 4 suggests that there is an absence of trust or confidence, but not necessarily a confirmation of your question. This actually changes to hexagram 18 (Decay/Repair/Work on what has been spoiled). I tend to associate hexagram 50 with self development, or transforming the self.
The iching is also known for giving you the answer you need, so forgive me but I feel the iching is suggesting that you may need to work on something personal, (frame of mind, attitude, perspective, self-image). But for you! Not for anyone else (although when you work on yourself for you, people naturally tend to be drawn to you anyway ).
Again please forgive me. I know it's hard when you're really attached to someone, to take a step back and look at things from a different perspective.
My two cents: If she wants an open relationship and you don't, then it may be best for you move on.
Open relationships, by nature, involve other people. They also require A LOT of trust, honesty and confidence (self-security). (This may be what is required of the Wanderer/Traveller of line 56.4 to ease their mind/heart.)
Perhaps you could start by reflecting on your username and how this presents you to the world.
I'm sure you have many beautiful qualities, ideas, quirks or passions you could display.
You could even let the iching guide you here.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).