Is our relationship a lost case? 38.6/54

[springflower]

As I wrote on my previews post, my ex fiance asked me to prove him that I am able to support him in order to be together again.
So I asked if our relationship is a lost case.
38.6
-> 54
Ok... interesting line. Someone feels his partner as something very bad. But he is not bad. He just wants to marry. 54 the marriage of the younger sister. I am indeed the younger sister (we are 3 sisters). I am confused. Who is who? I am the one who sees my partner as a pig or he is the one who sees me as a pig? And 54 it's our relationship or maybe will he have a new relationship with a new woman?

 

[dragona]

Hi, it is easy to loose perspective with emotional issues.
To me it looks as you are (probably both) alienated and with lots of unresolved issues, seeing things that are not there and overthink things out of proportions. If you could put all the supossing and doubts aside and communicate in a quality way, things could get cleared up. Good luck.
http://www.jamesdekorne.com/GBCh/hex38.htm

 

[springflower]

You are right dragona. The thing is that I don't know how to manage it. He doesn't want to talk about us at the moment. He is so confused. He is just waiting to prove my love. I feel lost.

 

[dragona]

He doesn't want to talk about us at the moment.

How can you prove your love if that is so? By actions, I guess? Well, do not jump off the cliff if he asks so
As I understood, he is going through some things and needs to feel you are supporting him but you should do so by stepping aside? That only works as a short trip, imo.
Perhaps ask IC; What do I need to know about this situation? WHat is the best for me to do in this situation? How can I best work to open the lines of communication and trust? What is the potential of this relationship now? etc..something in that sense

 

[springflower]

Dear Dragona, thank you for your advices. I asked some questions as you recommended.