It came to a head - turmoil, doubt and confusion - what is true? Hex 39 unchanging

[Trojina]

... Ok, so if you don't mind clarifying, in your opinion the answer I received to my question;
'Can I go back/ is the situation salvigable?' - 3. 1, 5, 6 to 23,

Is saying that the difficulties experienced now will lead to a split/ reckoning?
Or, that though there are difficulties here but they should be dealt with with a sense of community ie try and get on with them even if it isn't as easy as with others, and 23 perhaps saying to disperse with my worries on the situation?

I hate to do this, and Trojan's Nelly song is becoming the theme tune here, but I really am curious, and it's facilitating the learning process, of how to read the yi isn't it? Perhaps it should only be read by the asker's instinctive reaction to the meaning of the hexagrams, but then there will always be wishful thinking clouding the true meaning perhaps.. Making an objective reading from someone else more beneficial..? (I know, no straight answers, true of everything...)

Em the trouble is you are trying to work out the problem on the level of thinking and it clearly isn't working. You are just going round and round in circles. We can't know whether these people are nasty bullies or just ordinary people, how much is you, how much is them, but what you are doing with the problem is in the realm of neurosis. You can recognise that yes ? You're not nuts but you are experiencing obsessive thoughts and repeating these thoughts is meaningless to you now i think , just words going round and round. Its a charade to keep on questioning the Yi now isn't it. I made light of it with the video because I thought you were over it but you're not...

You are looking for the impossible, an 'objective reading'. Em you've had 100 readings on this topic another one isn't going to help IMO. I do think you need help from a decent therapist or someone who can help with these obsessive thoughts cos otherwise i worry you will make yourself ill, i genuinely do.

Besides I'm not sure theres many left to give you a reading. Haven't you noticed how many people have wearied, had enough having giving you all they could...and its like you haven't even noticed..

More readings won't solve anything.

 

[em ching]

I know, I don't really want more interpretations, I am just curious as to how Hex 23 should be read. But I really don't want to push it further here as the energy isn't there. I guess there can't be a definite interpretation of individual hexagrams, and it doesn't tell the furture, more the present, I think, and yes, anything more would be circles so I will shh.