Love life advice

[IrSoria]

Hello.
Today I come again to request your opinion about the hexagrams.
This morning I asked Yi for some advice
I have felt overwhelmed due to a short relationship in which I did not feel reciprocated.
It's been 2 weeks since this ended, but it's still running through my mind, and the mistakes I think I've made.
I feel like I rushed to end a relationship, but I didn't feel comfortable or that there was interest from the other part.
The actual question is the following:
What can you advise me about my sentimental life?


54/ 2. Promotes the perseverance of a lonely man.
Retire in solitude, and comment on a clogged eye.
Keep seeing but only with one eye.
Retiring in solitude allows me to see even a little the perspective of the matter, I feel alone and abandoned.
And comment that it will last.

51 the shock.
I don't know if it's prudent to read line 2, but I feel identified
The commotion comes with danger, you lose your treasures and climb the 9 hills, after 7 days you will recover them.
What makes me understand is that the consequences of my way of acting arrive.
But I must calm down and little by little everything will return to normal.

I really feel bad.
Sometimes I believe that my life does not settle or achieve stability in any aspect (work, family, relationships, and health).
I usually retire and lock myself in my house without having contact with anyone.
I only go out to work and come home that's how it's always been, when I feel overwhelmed.

 

[rosada]

54.2 says you are a bit of a hermit and thus your social life is rather limited. However this is not necessarily a bad thing for certainly it’s better to be by yourself than with someone who’s not compatible. Still you might want to consider what you could do to get you out of the house more just to be around people. Someone interesting may show up like a 51. Bolt out of the blue!

 

[cris]

Hi IrSoria,

I feel your distress. It’s not easy to find people to connect with and develop durable, healthy relationships - less and less so as we grow older. It’s normal to make mistakes especially when we are most emotionally exposed. Don’t second-guess yourself - whatever you did was in good faith and based on the current circumstances.

In my experience 54.2 may mean that not all is known - our visibility over the situation is limited. The line anyway encourages to persevere - hang in there and maintain a positive outlook! Things will turn for the better

All the very best,
Cris

 

[IrSoria]

Hello.
Thank you very much for taking the time to respond @cris @rosada
I hope that as the days go by I feel less overwhelmed
I think that from time to time all human beings happen to us.
I just think I've been stuck in this nonsense for quite some time.
It's hard to stop being a hermit or take refuge in solitude so as not to feel hurt or overwhelmed.
I have realized that I have closed myself so as not to be hurt, I am not even affective, how do I ask to relate affectively with someone if I do not know how to do it myself?
This reading made me see my reality.
Greetings!

 

[marybluesky]

What can you advise me about my sentimental life? 54.2 >51

For now persevere as a lonely person in less than ideal conditions until a sudden event changes the game.

 

[IrSoria]

thanks @marybluesky.
You are very direct and consistent in your answers.
Greetings!