Love Spat and Next Steps

[mindful_seeker]

I had a little spat with a friend who I had been talking with about us possibly dating. We've gone back and forth, both wanting this, both not. The friendship has been strained as a result. Last conversation had us both unhappy with the other. Now, I had planned to visit my friend this week, but wonder if I should cancel these plans. I'm confused and hurt. Feel I've lost my friend in all this. I consulted Yi about best next steps for me to take. Answer given was 7.1.2 > 24 I'm at a loss here. Can someone help understand this reading?

-mindful seeker

 

[yly2pg1]

We've gone back and forth, both wanting this, both not. The friendship has been strained as a result.

Line 1 is about the ball game between you and him. Rules is good but too much of it spoils the game.
You don't plan a good romance, do you?

Line 2?
Don't worry, what you have in mind will be bestowed upon you if you have a good romance.

 

[dobro p]

"I consulted Yi about best next steps for me to take. Answer given was 7.1.2 > 24"

Disciplined, powerful force that moves in a way that gets back to the beginning of the cycle with her/him. What's hard to understand in that?

 

[mindful_seeker]

Go back to the beginning in a powerful way?? Start the friendship over? I guess there is no other choice, if he's willing too.

 

[luz]

Karcher says of 7.1:

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Agreeing with Yly2pg1 here. I would say go back to basics. Be friends. Is there attraction?, then follow it. Let the attraction lead you. Don't try to send the army. You can not really plan a love relationship. It must be so awkward, anyway.

MHO.

 

[mindful_seeker]

Can you believe it -- I just asked Yi "HOW DO I APPROACH HIM ABOUT GOING BACK TO THE BEGINNING IN A POWERFUL WAY?" and the answer given was 7.1.> 19!!!

 

[mindful_seeker]

please help me more with 7.1

this is a good friend I do not want to loose. we have now both seen to worst of each other. (almost)

 

[luz]

Until somebody shows up, I can only tell you what I think or what I would do. I don't know anything more about 7.1

I think that first of all you have to deal with your own feelings. Why are you confused? Are you unsure of whether you feel attracted to him or not? Why are you hurt? Because you would like him to be more eager to 'take the next step', so to
speak? Deal with those feelings and if what comes out at the top of the heap is the good feelings you have for him, then great! The friendship made it, at least on your part.

Then, I would go ahead with the visit and I would tell him how much I value and enjoy his friendship and how I don't want to lose it.

I would tell him that I think that the best approach is to continue being good friends and see where that leads you. And then I would try to relax and let the relationship take its own course...

That's all I can think of... I hope somebody else helps.

 

[jte]

I consulted Yi about best next steps for me to take. Answer given was 7.1.2 > 24

7.1 Go forward *in the right way*. You get to figure out what that is. Funnage...

7.2 You can still be friends. You can still be more than that. You get to figure that out, too.

Funnage...

But seriously, best o' luck. Friendship is a powerful force, too.

- Jeff

 

[mindful_seeker]

Lightangel,

I agree with everything you said. My confusion is about how to do the friendship, how to go back to "normal" etc. I do want to be friends, that's not an issue.

7.1 says to go the right way. When I asked Yi how to do this, I again recieved 7.1

I can only guess that the "right way" is honest, direct communication. What else could it be??

-Mindful seeker

 

[yly2pg1]

The right way?

Dance along the rhythms of love.
Be natural!

Honesty and sincerity is in the pace of the dance.

 

[jte]

"I can only guess that the "right way" is honest, direct communication. What else could it be?? "

"Dance along the rhythms of love.
Be natural! Honesty and sincerity is in the pace of the dance."

It's not for me to say, really, but both of those sound pretty good to me...

- Jeff