Men believe him

[Cometta]

Hello everyone,
What does this sentence mean?
I am sensitive to this question because all my self confidence erroded because nobody wanted to trust me and as I tried to fit in I failed in every aspect.
My inquiery was : but now I knew fear and I don't know if my trust/confidence about a given subject or situation is false.
The answer was: 49.3.4.5<>24
As for 24 return, I lost this feeling of ease and being at home, because of all the reprimands and warnings I receive everytime I feel like doing something.

I would appreciate your take on it.
Maybe it is saying to take time to confirm my intuition before any jump (49.3)? But the change of government in 49.4 reveals the same confusion I am in, what government it is about? The sense of who I am, or the fearful one I am operating under now? 49.5 is exactly what I think about all this sifting we all do when asking questions, because when we trust our selves we don't need asking.

 

[ZeroPoint]

What was the question? The description above doesn't convey the context or describe what happened. I don't understand the second paragraph at all. Perhaps read the post on how to get the most from a reading, and try again?

 

[marybluesky]

I am sensitive to this question because all my self confidence erroded because nobody wanted to trust me and as I tried to fit in I failed in every aspect.
My inquiery was : but now I knew fear and I don't know if my trust/confidence about a given subject or situation is false.
The answer was: 49.3.4.5<>24

This is a very good answer: the season will change (49) and your confidence will return (24).
It does take time: 49.3: you can't be too demanding know, first attempts won't be impressive. But comes a time when you (or others ?) believe in you. 49.4: the change of mandate can indicate a change in view point or decision. 49.5: the change will be so clear that no augury is needed to show it.

24 is a good hexagram. That of recovery.

 

[moss elk]

My inquiery was : but now I knew fear and I don't know if my trust/confidence about a given subject or situation is false.
The answer was: 49.3.4.5<>24

So, to accomplish what you want...

Line 5: change yourself into a confident person (fake it until you make it), display the confidence, you won't be doubted. Be not anxious. Be a calm, collected, even disinterested tiger, yawning from a nap in the sunlight.

Line 4: you have regrets now, they will pass. Maintain confidence and change the rules.

Line 3: *But* Don't be the 1st one to bring the issue up. After they see your confidence (freedom from anxiety & doubt) others will bring the issue up. When they do, go with it.

So, don't push this, pull it.
Change your behaviour.
Others will see the change.
When they bring it up say 'yes, I am ready'

This is a great, short in duration,
Exercise in patience.
Best of luck.

 

[Cometta]

How great it is to read you again guys. I really miss you. And your smart ways of seeing.. in that I am confident. Thank you, you make my mind wonder. And no need to hide as you see through me clearly

To be honest I am often confused about which Me the reading is talking to, and I am so strong in deceiving myself that I can see both good and bad as equal. Maybe it is about coming to terms with my shame of being limited as human and not being able to please the god/universe? Sometimes I push the sensuality to its extremes as defiance, other times I feel guilty for being vulnerable and wanting my basic needs.

It is too late here and I didn't get notifications of your messages but I am happy I saw them before so I can sleep on it.. will come back later to answer properly.

Wish you a good night/day.

 

[Cometta]

Moss elk, I appreciate a lot your tangible strategy. You perceived the dynamics exactly as it is happening. Thank you, and your delicate way of pointing to the real problem is just heart warming, thank you. What you said has oppened a clogged channel, really grateful to you for this peace.
I have a niece who is remarquably intuitive and I remember her when 3 or 4 years old, she was trying to explain something that adults don't believe her to understand and laughed at her or reprimanded her and how she can become so angry and frustrated because she lacks words and don't know how to express herself the conventional way, so she just gets sulk refusing to talk to anyone. I was like that, I think all childrens do. Another reaction could have been to try harder to convince them, or give up on the truth she knows, that is what I did. I should have learned from her but I was already a hardened sinner, still pushing and refusing to forgive when the best thing I should have done is to developp my expression. Instead I still try to make believe and that puts a lot of stress where I could have told my truth with ease. That is why I reach out to others wishing they could help me lighten my stress with their words and wisdom. But it doesn't help at all, no it leaves me incapacitated of developping myself although I know what is the issue and how to resolve it. And yes your image of the yawning tiger could not be better to explain how it feels to be at peace with one's truth. It doesn't explain, it just do.

 

[Cometta]

Mary,
My experience of 49.3 (18, and another one I don't remember here) where the Yi talks about a duration, a time period before and after an event, it is in fact real sequences of time so I learned to anticipate; I mean that just after bringing out the question things start to move and I can feel something coming. I think Trojina or Hilary said something about answers as actual events, that is how I know I have reached a turning point and there will be a change. Funny enough I feel tired afterwards and have no energy to mingle with the world. As I say that 24 pops up.
Maybe that is the season you saw in my reading, and you are right I feel so tired as if I was swimming in a ocean and just reached the shores, I can't even think about what I should do now or how to start in the new era. I am just thankful to leave a dangerous place and that is confidence in fact. As you said the new place will teach me what to do as a tiger aware of its environnement in every moment in time. It could not be otherwise because its strenght comes not from a borrowed knowledge but an awareness of life around him although it can startle sometimes lol
We will see where it is going ..To be continued

Thank you so much for being present with me, we share this faith that life must be bigger, and so strippings, molting and returns, so thank you for the joy you bring.

 

[Cometta]

ZeroPoint, I was trying to be faithful to the feeling/perception I had and was afraid to spoil it by words especially because thinking in english is different from how I use to think. So I apologize for the wrecked expression.
What I meant is that I have experienced fear of what I thought was betrayal from others when the truth is I betrayed myself by following others blindly and lost track on myself. I didn't know I had all it takes to navigate and I jumped thinking there is other boats but I think others are an illusion, I couldn't find a solid foundation and it is scary.
I think yi was aware of that and handed me what I need to hang on, if I am still breathing it means that life always sustains itself no matter the form.

 

[Cometta]

If I may, I will say:
49.3 hang on there, something is coming, as the line is leaving the inner world.
49.4 life will find its ways whatever is the environnement. The arrival in a new context and sniffing the new air, confidence makes readiness to adaptation?
49.5 you would not have to think, you will just be. Ruling your world.
If it can help ...