Mom Working as a Caregiver: 28.1 to 43 and 37.1.3 to 20

[Fanofenka]

Since last month, my mom becomes a caregiver. Due to COVID-19, it led to her old job working in clothing, a sunset occupation, where the wages are expensive. She has occasional work in clothing. In late September/early October, my mom went to training in Flushing. However, she argues about things the patient says.

Is mom working as a caregiver worth it? 28.1 Great Exceeding/Perspondence of the Great/Excess to 43 Deciding/Break-Through/Resoluteness/Displacing/Removing/Determination/Resolution.
28.1 speaks of being degraded.
43 speaks of the job being too much for her.
Is it saying it's not worth it?

How long will my mom work as a caregiver? 37.1.3 People in the Home/The Family/The Clan/Household/Members of a Family to 20 Seeing/Comtemptlation/View/Looking at/Examination.
37.1 speaks of wanting things to go her way.
37.3 speaks of being angry with the situation that will change.
20 speaks of other viewing her as a solid statue.
Is it saying that if she is unsatisfied, she will leave?

 

[RemRem]

Hi Fanofenka,

Rem here. Here's my take on your reading:

Q: Is mom working as a caregiver worth it?
R: 28.1 to 43

Yes, it's worth it if:

Hexagram 28
Great Exceeding

0
0.1 image: I'm seeing the lady in the lake (from the Bly Manor)
0.2 this lady keeps walking on the grounds to find her kid
0.3 this is an ongoing routine
0.4 her job is a routine
0.5 ...yes, if she finds an inherent meaning to this routine.

Great Exceeding, the ridgepole warps.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.
Creating success.'

1
1.1 ...if this meaningful routine [Great excess]
1.2 ...preoccupies her more during this time [ridgepole wraps]
1.3 ...if this keeps her on track [direction to go]
1.4 ...and despite odds, she feels fulfilled [success]

For the offering mat, use white thatch grass.
No mistake.

2
2.1 ...if it becomes a personal space [offering mat]
2.2 ...and a sense of comfort [white thatch grass]
2.4 nothing's wrong [no mistake]

H43 Deciding

Deciding, tell it in the king's chambers.
With truth, call out, there is danger.
Notify your own city.
Fruitless to take up arms;
Fruitful to have a direction to go.

3
3.1 ...if she made the decision herself to do it [Deciding]
3.2 ...something she's sure about [tell...king's chambers]
3.3 ...despite the risk [truth...call out...danger]
3.4 ...if she's speaking more about it [notify...city]
3.5 ...if she's not struggling against it [fruitless...take up arms]
3.6 ...if she finds it as a personal direction [direction to go]

I hope this helps, Fanofenka.

Rem

 

[Fanofenka]

Hi Fanofenka,

Rem here. Here's my take on your reading:

Q: Is mom working as a caregiver worth it?
R: 28.1 to 43

Yes, it's worth it if:

Hexagram 28
Great Exceeding

0
0.1 image: I'm seeing the lady in the lake (from the Bly Manor)
0.2 this lady keeps walking on the grounds to find her kid
0.3 this is an ongoing routine
0.4 her job is a routine
0.5 ...yes, if she finds an inherent meaning to this routine.

Great Exceeding, the ridgepole warps.
Fruitful to have a direction to go.
Creating success.'

1
1.1 ...if this meaningful routine [Great excess]
1.2 ...preoccupies her more during this time [ridgepole wraps]
1.3 ...if this keeps her on track [direction to go]
1.4 ...and despite odds, she feels fulfilled [success]

For the offering mat, use white thatch grass.
No mistake.

2
2.1 ...if it becomes a personal space [offering mat]
2.2 ...and a sense of comfort [white thatch grass]
2.4 nothing's wrong [no mistake]

H43 Deciding

Deciding, tell it in the king's chambers.
With truth, call out, there is danger.
Notify your own city.
Fruitless to take up arms;
Fruitful to have a direction to go.

3
3.1 ...if she made the decision herself to do it [Deciding]
3.2 ...something she's sure about [tell...king's chambers]
3.3 ...despite the risk [truth...call out...danger]
3.4 ...if she's speaking more about it [notify...city]
3.5 ...if she's not struggling against it [fruitless...take up arms]
3.6 ...if she finds it as a personal direction [direction to go]

I hope this helps, Fanofenka.

Rem

Thanks, I feel that the way you interpretate it is really detailed. It turns out that since she works close to where I live, it's quite convenient to her.

 

[RemRem]

Hi Fanofenka. I understand. Perhaps you can also ask you mom her thoughts about it (Without telling first the reading). We can also get some insight from her

Wishing you well and your mom!