Moving on romantically 19.3.5 to 5

[butterfly spider]

I have 4 days on my own as my son is away on DofE.
I went on match.com to look for someone as I feel that it would be unfair to bring my son into this and I am ever so lonely

I just entered my name and went on - no money or payment

I looked at some men - pretty scarey

One caught my eye who had winked at me. Aquarius a sailor and he looked nice. I winked back
Scarey for me here!

I asked what should I be worried about and for 19.35 to 5

I have not really delved into romance - some of the men I meet just are not right somehow.

If anyone has anything to say on the reading and this guy then perhaps get back. There are some other men on the site but am not altogether delighted with doing all this. It is £39 to join for a month too

Xx

 

[butterfly spider]

I just think I am daunted by all of this - sorry to have asked. It just feels like going to kindergarten - being pushed by Mum into going when it's all so frightening ....

 

[Trojina]

Don't do it then. Why frighten yourself ? 19.3 is not a great auspice for it anyway.

Wait (hex 5) it will all come in time. No need to go rushing off with strange men.

19 can signify the subtle approach of new spiritual energies. Sometimes one has to be alone to sense them. Being lonely isn't a good reason to force yourself into dating men off a website. Perhaps you need some faith to just continue as you are a while ?

If you want to do it then fine....but if you feel uneasy then you aren't ready so why force it.

 

[butterfly spider]

Thank you - not only am I not convinced this is the right thing but I can't afford the subscription fee. Strangely in a National broadaheet there was an article about dating sites and their greedy grasp for money

I think that I will wait a while - no point complicating. Just that a guy winked - he is Aquarius and a sea sailor - good links both of them. I knew before I cast the answer but it is easy to get carried away sitting on your own and looking....

Thank you for the advise - hex 19 is alien to me - feels like the sort of stranger turning up to a dinner party uninvited to me ....

Xxxx

 

[goddessliss]

I see this reading as being not naive with the online dating and you'll be ok. Line 3 talks about not taking the naive approach and line 5 talks about being smart when talking with these men.
As a long term online dater I can tell you I've learned a lot about myself more than anything if you are open to it re meeting men online.
I use POF as you don't have to pay anything and can chat to as many as you like and being very experienced I can pick a bser a mile off. I have to add I haven't been on a date for over 2 years but I still enjoy chatting with them and learning about myself and it can pleasantly pass away a lonely evening.
The best thing to do is not invest anything emotionally and the experienced ones can pick a vunerable woman very easily and don't under any circumstances take anything they say about you personally because it's usually a reflection of their issues, not you.
- Liss

 

[Trojina]

Line 1 talks about not taking the naive approach and line 5 talks about being smart when talking with these men.

she didn't get line 1, she got 19.3.5>5....perhaps it's a typo you made

 

[goddessliss]

she didn't get line 1, she got 19.3.5>5....perhaps it's a typo you made

Haha that's what I meant line 3 - I'll change it!!!