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Hi all,
This is my first post here. You have a great forum with lots of interesting discussions. Been around awhile and decided to join.
I’m not very experienced regarding I Ching and according to the person introduce it to me, you never can say that. A year ago , pondering on whether I will say yes to a cooperation with some people, although everything looked perfect I had a hunch that something wasn’t as it looked. I throw the coins and Yi, although I had neglected it for years * blush*, was kind enough to give me 8.3. Time show that this hunch was correct and it safe me from lots of troubles. That was the phase II of the relationship between Yi and me.
End of introduction…
Somedays ago, Yi gave me 20.3.4 >33 as an answer to a question regarding a friend of mine and his attitude. BTW, the question was “why he behaves to me like that”. He is almost rude, something that is new to me. He has his tempers sometimes ( a bit more than an average person) but now is something else. One day he is sweet and caring and the next grumpy. I care a lot about him and I have asked him ( more than once) if his has personal problems, or if I have done something wrong and offend him. He said no. His behavior is very confusing and sometimes makes me mad, but I try keep my anger. One of us must be calm, I think
I struggle to understand Yi’s reply, but haven’t understand it yet. Line 20.3 makes sense “Decides the choice. Between advance and retreat”. Those changes in his mood looks like advancing and retreat. Probably something concerns him and he is not ready to talk or he doesn’t want
On the other hand , line 20.4 makes not sense at all.
Hexagram 33, might say that there is something “threatening and he tries to protect him from that. Could be me or something else, I have no clue .
I also asked “what is the best approach I should follow”
56.1.3 to 21 .
56.1 A wanderer should not demean himself. Well, maybe I do that. ( I call it patience)
56.3 : I feel like a stranger in his land, this is true. Could it be that it shouldn’t concern me because I harm my self. ?
Relating hexagram 21 : could it be that I should be less passive/patient and try to bite through. Have a open discussion and express my feeling and how his behavior hurts me ?
Maybe it is irrelevant, but his behavior became worse, after I told him that I’m in an affair. There is not a romantic relationship between me and my friend, we are strictly friends but there is a coincidence that I can’t explain.
If there is anything you can say that might clarify my readings please do. Feel free to point any mistakes you see in my interpretation
Many thanks
Malena
This is my first post here. You have a great forum with lots of interesting discussions. Been around awhile and decided to join.
I’m not very experienced regarding I Ching and according to the person introduce it to me, you never can say that. A year ago , pondering on whether I will say yes to a cooperation with some people, although everything looked perfect I had a hunch that something wasn’t as it looked. I throw the coins and Yi, although I had neglected it for years * blush*, was kind enough to give me 8.3. Time show that this hunch was correct and it safe me from lots of troubles. That was the phase II of the relationship between Yi and me.
End of introduction…
Somedays ago, Yi gave me 20.3.4 >33 as an answer to a question regarding a friend of mine and his attitude. BTW, the question was “why he behaves to me like that”. He is almost rude, something that is new to me. He has his tempers sometimes ( a bit more than an average person) but now is something else. One day he is sweet and caring and the next grumpy. I care a lot about him and I have asked him ( more than once) if his has personal problems, or if I have done something wrong and offend him. He said no. His behavior is very confusing and sometimes makes me mad, but I try keep my anger. One of us must be calm, I think
I struggle to understand Yi’s reply, but haven’t understand it yet. Line 20.3 makes sense “Decides the choice. Between advance and retreat”. Those changes in his mood looks like advancing and retreat. Probably something concerns him and he is not ready to talk or he doesn’t want
On the other hand , line 20.4 makes not sense at all.
Hexagram 33, might say that there is something “threatening and he tries to protect him from that. Could be me or something else, I have no clue .
I also asked “what is the best approach I should follow”
56.1.3 to 21 .
56.1 A wanderer should not demean himself. Well, maybe I do that. ( I call it patience)
56.3 : I feel like a stranger in his land, this is true. Could it be that it shouldn’t concern me because I harm my self. ?
Relating hexagram 21 : could it be that I should be less passive/patient and try to bite through. Have a open discussion and express my feeling and how his behavior hurts me ?
Maybe it is irrelevant, but his behavior became worse, after I told him that I’m in an affair. There is not a romantic relationship between me and my friend, we are strictly friends but there is a coincidence that I can’t explain.
If there is anything you can say that might clarify my readings please do. Feel free to point any mistakes you see in my interpretation
Many thanks
Malena