My friends' relationship problem

[altair139]

My friend just got together with another person after breaking up with her ex. However she felt a bit insecure about this immediate relationship due to many reasons, especially when august arrives, her ex will be back to the city to work (she says she might still have some feelings for him?). She asked me for advice (since it's so complicated -_-) and then I asked the Yi: "Will they break up by Autumn?"
I got 28.4.6 > 57
Any ideas people? I think they will?

 

[MoonCatcher]

At a glance; I think the Yi is saying - too much going on with your friend (28 is a hexagram of overload)... line 6 is saying that she'll probably be overwhelmed by her ex's presence and it won't do anyone any good.

57 is to do with subtlety and gentle persuasion which I think is talking about you... you need to subtly but honestly tell her what you think.

I'm no expert - but hope this helps!

 

[altair139]

Really? I dont think i can be much help though. But she is insecure that she will be tempted to find her ex again. Her ex is also my friend so we talked. I asked him to do the iching cuz i thought it's more accurate that way. So he asked "will she find me again?" And he got 40.1.3.5.6 > 1. I cant help him again as the transformed hexagram is confusing me again ==. Any suggestions for this line?

 

[MoonCatcher]

Ok so... going on intuition here....

From the context of what you've said; I think that hex 40 is his wish to be free from this woman chasing / finding him... the changing lines express the stages of this.

The 1 could either represent himself or the woman; but from your description of your insecure friend; I'm guessing that she will initiate something with him again. This number is very strong; that of an initiator.

Hope this helps.

 

[altair139]

ya i've tried to ask a few more questions recently for them and hex 13 and 8 came out frequently too which indicate "union", i guess we will have to wait and see :/. anw thanks for the input!