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keeping a safe emotional distance is your right until you feel strong enough to resume some kind of relationship on your terms, if you choose to do so.
nykkic
I am going to put a little different light on this. Hexagram 38 hints at ways we can overcome opposition. The third line refers to the relationship you and your mother have. You have been through some terrible times with your mother. It is only natural to want to get away from her. However, from this point, if you wish to stay away permanently, do it with an attitude of it is over, and there is no further pain or anger, other than the memories themselves. In other words, let it go.
Gene
Come too close to her again and the sky will go dark and clear vision is much harder.
You have done the right thing of course. I think resting now is the right thing as well. This is very traumatic for you and most of all this is a process that takes all the time that it takes.
Dear nykkic,
I have just come across your thread and I am glad to see how your reading has panned out. It seems that the Opposition is coming to the point that will completely change within you.
38.3 "not a good beginning but a good end"
You had a dreadful childhood but by working on your relationship with your mother you are dealing with your emotional trauma. Your relationship with her will never be that good, you cannot achieve that any more, but sorting your own emotions/anger/fears is the best end that you can hope for.
38.5 "a companion reveals himself in his true character"
Now you are in a better position to see your mother as she is. Even though she will never be your best friend or the person that you trust the most, you don't need to see her as a threat any more, you can feel safer and free yourself to live your life.
All the best, :bows:
Clarity,
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