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Hm this is strange, almost contradictory, as if the 12 cancels out the 53, no?
If it is saying 53 is good for romance but you have to wait for the right time...Ok that makes sense. Wait for the right man...sounds negative (bc there's someone now who i am wondering about.) But regardless: it sounds then like 12 is bad for BOTH love and marriage - one-sided, failed or just lack of love. THat's no good.
Actually, I brushed 53.3 aside as it's not that line which determines the outcome, and you've had
so many discouraging readings/lines until recently. In my book 53.3. is about a husband/man who's been disciplined, leaves on an assignment/expedition and does not return. (Whereas line 53.5 is about a neglected wife for whom things work out eventually). Both lines can apply to both genders,
depending on the circumstances. It's line 4 that has the final say as to how things will evolve. Line 4
doesn't imply it'll be of short/limited duration, unless you take the description word for word. You
could tie that knot and have one or two ... or three lil lillylets you mentioned you'd envisaged
having last year. Just as well Trojan's mention of line 54.4 doesn't apply ... that's a case where
'converting maidenhood' has 'overrun the term' and the Comments: 'To overruning the term belongs
purpose. Possessing awaiting and also moving indeed.' may seem encouraging however, there too,
one cannot assume every word applies to one and all.
-- makes perfect sense.She might need some sort of break (53.4) to heal from all the 53.3ing No use going into a full on long term relationship 'injured' so to speak
Topal - isn't that Buddhist, let go of all desire, it is an illusion, or something? But if i no longer want it, then getting it will be kind of pointless, bc it wont matter at that point... (??)
a) not in control and you need to trust the nature of the Universe to give you what you need (not what you want) To do that you must create conditions within yourself that naturally attract a partner...NATURALLY
b) That anticipation creates a barrier to the potential partner so effort is required to discipline the wild emotions that stir up all this static. Wanting, imagining and feeling peeved that no one is materializing because "you deserve it" all ensure that this potential relationship stays away or arrives much later, as is usually the case.
c) Understanding the fact that "letting go" and "surrendering "is not remotely about being passive or giving up. It is about sending a signal to the Universe that you TRUST it and are willing to do the work on your side. Effort is required to discipline yourself and to know yourself but the effort is directed inwards rather than outwards. d) When you are busy focusing on the present and enjoying life in the present then this makes it easier for those elements needing balance to reorganize themselves.
elizabeth, I think what trojan said applies to your last post. It needs to be experienced, think on what topal said but you will 'know' it once you have experienced it yourself.
And i dont know how to get it, in order to get it, so that i can manifest it. Does that make sense?
Elizabeth - my heart truly goes out to you.
Basically you have to stop trying 'to do' anything about anything and what ever is happening is what is meant to be happening.
The only thing you really can do if anything at all, is live in a place of Acceptance. x
For it is not inertia alone that is responsible for human relationships repeating themselves from case to case, indescribably monotonous and unrenewed: it is shyness before any sort of new, unforeseeable experience with which one does not think oneself able to cope. But only someone who is ready for everything, who excludes nothing, not even the most enigmatical, will live the relation to another as something alive and will himself draw exhaustively from his own existence. For if we think of this existence of the individual as a larger or smaller room, it appears evident that most people learn to know only a corner of their room, a place by the window, a strip of floor on which they walk up and down. Thus they have a certain security. And yet that dangerous insecurity is so much more human which drives the prisoners in Poe's stories to feel out the shapes of their horrible dungeons and not be strangers to the unspeakable terror of their abode.
We, however, are not prisoners. No traps or snares are set about us, and there is nothing which should intimidate or worry us. We are set down in life as in the element to which we best correspond, and over and above this we have through thousands of years of accommodation become so like this life, that when we hold still we are, through a happy mimicry, scarcely to be distinguished from all that surrounds us. We have no reason to mistrust our world, for it is not against us. Has it terrors, they are our terrors; has it abysses, those abuses belong to us; are dangers at hand, we must try to love them. And if only we arrange our life according to that principle which counsels us that we must always hold to the difficult, then that which now still seems to us the most alien will become what we most trust and find most faithful. How should we be able to forget those ancient myths about dragons that at the last moment turn into princesses; perhaps all the dragons of our lives are princesses who are only waiting to see us once beautiful and brave. Perhaps everything terrible is in its deepest being something helpless that wants help from us.
1) How does one "create those conditions" you mention in part a? Concretely what does that mean?
2) Ok so no anticipation allowed, no imagining or dreaming etc... Although from books I have read we are supposed to imagine life with our life partner and feel "as if" he/she is already there in order to manifest them. So then the difference is to just not add in the "bc i deserve it" part?
3) What is the signal we send out to the Universe that we trust? Can you give an exemple? What sort of effort? (Maybe your answer is in "d" focus on present and enjoy life in the present. However when I did that (the 3-4 yrs prior to this year, where i was focused on work (enjoying work), i did not manifest anyone or meet anyone or date anyone. I was not miserable, i was very engaged but i was not bringing in new people into my life.) So what is the key ?
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