need help with 30 3.6 changing to 51

[joyfulmystic]

Hello,

I am new to this community- would sure appreciate some insights into this - I asked a question relating to the separation of someone I know.... a separation i suspect taht is going to be difficult- I got hex 30 ..changing line 3,6 changing to hex 51.

Thanks.

 

[willowfox]

Perhaps a little more information would be useful, as your question is quite vague.

 

[joyfulmystic]

Re: hex 30 changing to 51

This concerns a guy CH who I have known for a very long time- we had a one sided realtionship back then- he never stepped up to what was needed and we went separate ways in 2006- he married another woman in 2007- although i am not in touch with him I am aware of what is going on at his end - his marriage is in deep trouble- I get the sense he has decided to break away ( the IC has been pointing that out as have tarot readings)- the question i asked today was " in what manner will the separation proceed?"

thanks

 

[willowfox]

the question i asked today was " in what manner will the separation proceed?"

Well, line 30.3 suggests that he cannot go on regretting his mistake, that he will indeed need to do something.

Line 30.6 suggests the need to eradicate whatever is causing the problem, kill it, so, he needs to leave if the relationship is irreparable.

Hex 51 indicates suddenness, a walkout.

Actually, I'm not sure what you mean, as a separation is when one party walks out, unless you think he going to shoot her or vice versa?

 

[joyfulmystic]

re: 30 changing to 51

Thanks willowfox for replying to me- let me make this situation clear

I developed psychic faculties ( clairaudience in particular) in 2002 during a spiritual crisis sort of sitauation that was trigerred by my meeting this guy CH- we were both unhappily married at that time - I began receiving messages about my true connection with this guy and what our eventual destiny was- we became friends but were " just friends" although the relationship never progressed to anything more definete for many years until 2006 when I made a decision that i was not willing to do this kind of dance any more- I gave him an ultimatum and he quit on me- we wnt different ways- we both got divorced that year and he married again in 2007- although our physical lives separated, the bond between us never died ( inspite of my best efforts)- last year I ran into him and his wife while at a job interview meeting and I could see how miserable he was and the tension between them- in the past 2 months I have been receiving messages that he has decided to quit on this marriage- so I do feel it is a one-sided decision on his part ( I dont think his wife wants it even though she knows their relationship just isnt working)

hope this clarifies my question

thanks again

 

[willowfox]

Yes, I understand the situation but I am still not clear what you mean, "in what manner will the separation proceed?"

What are you asking?

 

[joyfulmystic]

30.3>51

thanks willowfox for your understanding

what I am trying to get from the iching is not whether he has decided to dissolve his marriage- that is abundantly clear from several sources- what i am trying to understand is whether this break up will happen suddenly, will it take time, will it be accompanied by a lot of deliberation and clear thinking on his part? accompanied by a lot of resistance, manipulation ( on his wife's part) and a lot of heartache and loss for him ( emotional, financial and that of his children's custody)?

2 days ago I consulted a british psychic who I had never spoken to previously ( I live in the US)- it is a big deal for me to make these calls and I did it under duress because for the last 3 days prior to the call I was exceedingly restless, jumpy, anxious, afraid and at times even panicky- and I knew i was picking up on him- then I receive a direct message from my higher guidance that "crunch time has come- he has made a decision"- I work with healing energies and crystals- so i began doing that work sensing he was feeling totally overwhelmed and even under attack - so this psychic tells me " he has already separated"- and tells me he is in for quite a battle with his wife- then she says "have you heard from him- because if you havent- you will very very shortly- he will let you know about his feelings for you and he really wants to make a dramatic reversal of the biggest mistake of his life- he wants to start anew"

well when i asked the iching- "has CH defenitively made up his mind to dissolve his current marriage and follow his heart's desire"- I got 49.3 changing to 17- to em the answer is YES- but he will approach it with deliberation, conversation - which is the right thing to do-

any thoughts from you would be so appreciated. If there is a better way for em to word the question i am seeking to answer, your guidance would be valuable

thanks

 

[joyfulmystic]

30 > 51

I framed another question to clarify what i have been trying to understand with the help of IC: " what will the divorce proceedings between CH and K entail?"
I got 10.3> 1

To me it says this is a dangerous situation requiring a lot of caution and deliberation and if it is attmepted with commitment and repect for the risk involved, then success is certain

your thoughts on this would be welcome- the person CH is up against is manipulative and cunning- so to compare the danger to stepping on a tiger's tail is accurate- to me the final outcome of hex 1 suggests sucess with commitment.

 

[willowfox]

what i am trying to understand is whether this break up will happen suddenly, will it take time, will it be accompanied by a lot of deliberation and clear thinking on his part? accompanied by a lot of resistance, manipulation ( on his wife's part) and a lot of heartache and loss for him ( emotional, financial and that of his children's custody)?

Now that's clearer. Hex 51 is very fast, like lightening.

 

[willowfox]

I framed another question to clarify what i have been trying to understand with the help of IC: " what will the divorce proceedings between CH and K entail?"
I got 10.3> 1

A major battle by the look of things, she will go for the throat.

 

[willowfox]

well when i asked the iching- "has CH defenitively made up his mind to dissolve his current marriage and follow his heart's desire"- I got 49.3 changing to 17-

This suggests that he will consult with close friends and probably a lawyer as well, and thus eventually act on their advice as regards to divorcing. Therefore, he is still thinking of the ultimate step, a divorce.

 

[joyfulmystic]

30> 51

thanks willowfox- thats what I have feared- she will go for everything he has got-

I asked another question: what is the best course of action CH should adopt with K to tackle his marriage issue"

I got 64.1> 38

so the ending will come, proceed with a lot of caution but be prepared to lose a lot but you will get what you desire at the end-
am I right???

what i dont understand is that some of the IC readins talk about suddenness and dramatic movement ( 30> 51)and other talk of slow deliberation (10>1)- Is there a way to understand this more clearly- is there a better way to to paraphrase my question?