New employment hexagram 63>2.3.5.>19

[IrSoria]

Hello again!
I send greetings to everyone and ask for your help again.

I find myself in a somewhat complicated situation that I put myself in.
2 months ago I moved in with a person I barely knew and we obviously don't have the same idea of a relationship.
I am far from my family and I know that I don't count on them, I am locked up most of the time in an apartment that I share with someone with whom I often argue.
Just a week ago I lost my job, I find myself unemployed, in debt and with problems in a relationship, and living in an apartment that is not mine and my partner constantly tells me that I should look for a new place to move.
I can't tell my mom about this since I don't have her support and I know she has her own problems.
I don't think there is anyone external who can help me.

I have been sending resumes and I have had a job interview from which they have not called me.
My financial situation really worries me and I hope you can help me.
I asked the Iching

Where can I find a well-paying and stable job?

Answered with hexgram 63 > 2.3.5. > 19
63.
Already on the other side
2.He talks about the wife losing her curtain, she should not go after it.
Here you are telling me that I lost my job a week ago?
He says not to go after it
3. Here it mentions 3 years to subdue the demons, it mentions inferior people, what does this refer to?
Will it take 3 years to find that well-paid and stable job?
5. : The neighbor on the east side sacrifices an ox. What he does is less rewarding than the neighbor on the west side, who makes simple offerings in the summer and receives abundant blessings.(wu)
Should I be modest with my aspirations?
Mutated Hexgram 19 The Approach
I must interpret it literally that I am getting closer.

The other question I asked that I need to know in order to exploit my skills to improve at work.
He responded with the hexagram 48>5>46
48 the well
5. Clean and fresh spring water.
A good attitude will reflect the outside.
It could be changing my attitude to a more positive one.
46 pushing
Little growing and pushing to achieve something big, is he talking about perseverance?
He talks about an expedition to the south, I don't understand this very well.

I hope you can help me
Greetings!!!

 

[my_key]

Hi IrSoria

Where can I find a well-paying and stable job?

Answered with hexgram 63 > 2.3.5. > 19

In 63 Yi advocates for the noble one to contemplate all aspects of his distress in order to build a defence against them. Perhaps the stable job you are wanting, may be attracted by greater stability in both your inner and outer world.

You are already crossing this river (63) it seems and something new is approaching (19) to help give you the abundance and stability you are seeking.

The other question I asked that I need to know in order to exploit my skills to improve at work.
He responded with the hexagram 48>5>46

48 <> 46
'Replenishing' through 'Ascending the Sacred Mounting'

Your larder is being re-stocked in ways that will allow you to more effortlessly grow upwards into all work situations. Aim high, be patient, remain calm and stay open to taking new opportunities that come your way.

... or there might be other ways you would prefer to interpret this reading.

Good Luck

 

[IrSoria]

Hello.
Sorry for answering so late, but I appreciate that you took the time to respond and contribute to my question.
I'm still looking for a job, nothing has been finalized yet.
I don't lose heart, I hope to find a job soon.

 

[breakmov]

Hello IrSoria

Curious idea that came to me when reading your thread.....

From what I understand in general from your topic, you describe a series of "problems" that you currently have in your relationship, and as a solution you want to physically distance yourself from all these problems.... but to do that you need a job.
and then consult yijing:

Where can I find a stable, well-paying job?

Answered with hexgram 63 > 2.3.5. > 19

The curiosity I mentioned at the beginning is that for me this answer is related not to the job search but rather to an answer/solution to the "problems" you mentioned in the topic...
...a response to the context that led you to think of job as a solution.

What if your "well-paid and stable job" was to fit you into this relationship, with defined and stable characteristics (hex63). And try to manage (hex19) the problems in your relationship, taking into account the potential for a better relationship for both of you.
What do you need the other party can give and what does the other party need you can offer?
Is symbiosis possible in your relationship?... apparently, this is expected when both parties decide that it makes sense to live a life together.

and if this way of seeing things makes sense to you, then 63 > 2.3.5. >19 talks about how to make this adjustment between the two... which, as I see it, the lines talk very directly and precisely about how to do this.

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