New Person

[yellowcat]

I have just joined a dating site for the first time and am chatting to a guy
who sounds nice. However I just looked at his profile again and it says he is not
looking for relationship or commitment. I realised that we are wanting different things but before backing off from him I asked the I Ching what is the potential between us?
I received hex 35.1.3 changing to 30. I would appreciate anyone's feedback about this,
thank you

 

[iams girl]

Hi YC,

35 “Ever widening expansion and clarity”: Imo, overall, your courageous steps in a new direction (new dating site, new to Clarity) will be a rewarded

35.1 “We ought not to try to win confidence regardless of the situation”: However, as to this specific guy, preserve your dignity; move on.

35.2 “Strive on”: Keep looking.

30 Depend upon “the harmonious and beneficient forces of the cosmos” to “achieve success.”: Wise choices that draw upon the good and dependable will help keep one on a strong footing in life.

 

[yellowcat]

Dear Iams girl. Thanks very much for your accurate response. I have been thinking about it the last few days and it feels spot on. The guy I mentioned seems very friendly but in
a remote and disinterested way. I checked his profile and it says he isn't looking for a relationship or any commitment. I had not noticed that before. Best wishes xx