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Hi Diamanda,I took your suggestion and asked:What would X ideally like me to do towards him?I received hexagram 53.3.5 changing to 23The lines made me nervous and stripping away does to...but I’m not an expert Thanks so muchHi,What is a likely outcome of setting up a coffee appointment next week with X?46.4 > 32This is an auspicious cast. It describes a large sacrifice which brings longevity. A coffee date is not exactly a large sacrifice though. So I wonder if you need to offer a lot more to him, if you want to convince him to get back with you.I just read your other thread, and the question that persistently popped to mind was this:What would he ideally like me to do towards him?Can you ask that, if you feel inclined?
Thank you Equinox,I most definitely am. Doing many things which do me good! I’m feeling it is time to open contact with him and am wondering if a simple meeting over coffee is enough...He wants you to take care for yourself (line 3) and having patience (line 5).23 doesn't have to make you nervous in this context. I received it often, when I had to renew my way of thinking/ acting profoundly. It may be painful, but the process is inevitable and will change things for the better, if you surrender to it.
and now I would like to set up an easy "coffee date" with X to ask about some business info. It would be an attempt to re-connect with him in the hopes of potentialy planting the seed for further communication with, obviously, the hope of us eventually finding out way back together.
I'm becoming a certifiable nut case . X replied...had started the reply yesterday and wasn't finished with it so didn't send it till today. It was friendly enough. I need to learn to breathe through the fear...as it is said in German "Fear is a bad companion". Also Equinox has admonished me several times to just trust the process...I will keep everyone up to date if I ask for that coffee date...Guys, I am panicking here...a friend just told me at lunch that he thinks I am stupid for asking and that I should let it go. I also wrote X some friendly banter to open up the possibility to ask him for the coffee. I had asked him a question about a car Monday and got no reply. When I queried “what is a likely outcome of asking X about the car again?” I received 12.3.4.5.6 changing to 15. When I asked “what is a likely outcome of having asked X again about the car?” I got 14.3 to 38...
I do not know what it is about today and why I feel more impatient than usual. I just saw X at work. I do not think he saw me but he still has not responded to my last entry in the business chat that became a friendly one. Feel free to give me criticism since I know I am a bit needy. Anyway, so I asked: What is a likely reason X is taking so long to respond to my messages? And I got 41.1.6 changing to 7I do not know what to make of this other than X is busy and I am pushing???I also asked What would be the likely outcome of sending X the other car picture today?...this is because he is a huge car fan and I want to send him another picture I took of a car I think he would like. I got 55.1.3 changing to 16. This seems positive to me and that perhaps I should do it...Hi Diamanda, we talked about it and he said if it happened it would be nice but that it wasn’t a specific goal of his he thinks he needs to feel fulfilled...
You're not needy, you're just in love.Feel free to give me criticism since I know I am a bit needy.
If he had an affair I would be devastated! Why???You're not needy, you're just in love.What is a likely reason X is taking so long to respond to my messages? 41.1.6 > 7You suddenly stopped augmenting his ego so now there's a sort of a war between you.What would be the likely outcome of sending X the other car picture today? 55.1.3 > 16A temporary affair causes a relationship to be broken, and then there's deceit... (16) or a picture (16).You know, it sounds like there were/are very serious problems between you two.A business chat, and a coffee, and a picture, aren't going to solve those issues.Have you thought about speaking sincerely with him about resolving those issues?How important is it to you to have children? And how would you feel if he had an affair?
Please someone answer this so I can sleep tonight! Equinox?
Thank you both for your answers and your patience. I appreciate it. I'm going to call it a night and stop bugging you nice people here with my panic mode. Many many thanks
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).