Newbie needs help 28.1=44

[dragonchild]

Hello guys,

I am a newbie here, turning to iching in times of my life when I am a bit confused, or need guidance. I do not have sticks at home, and I do not cast coins either, I use, and I know I should not, on line reading.

I have had a relationship that meant a world to me, we were together for 8 years,past 3 we were having a hard time...and it somehow became obvious we do net let eachother grow, so we tried and tried to separate and, through a silly fight we did, it was more as an excuse, this August, and have not bee in contact since.

We have had a great relationship, I was starting to become aware of my mistakes,and I tried to move on, and I was sure I did, although a bond remained.

To cut the long story short, he showed up on my graduation ceremony today, and he was positive and content in a way I remembered him from our beginnings. We talked, hugged, and we agreed we still love eachother very much, but he said it is best we move on, it might hurt now, but in long term....it was best.
He said it was worth it and he is grateful for every second of it. And all I can think of is good times, our bond,and beginnings when we used to push eachother to be better persons, we just seemed to be meant for eachother...and then we took it for granted.

I realized how much I loved him and missed him when we spoke on the phone, navigating him how to find the hall, he has been my sunshine for such a long time.
I know we took each other for granted, I was a spoilt brat sometimes with dificult family situation, he was a loaner and not ready to commit.


But I have seen his eyes, and feeling his hand in my...forgive me, but I need to chech if there is still a hope, or a way, or something worth saving...so I opened a reading.

MY question was, please explain me the situation with X. And I got 28.6 ( top line was red) changing to 44.
I have seen the meanings more or less, but need to ask anyway....is there a hope ( or should I find a program that opens each line at the time)

Thank you all for help.

Hugs,
dragonchild

 

[dragonchild]

I asked for his point of view explained and got 49.3.6 changing to 25.
For what is best for all of us I got 11, and for what can I do for us to be together I got 9.

Confused:dizzy:

 

[fkegan]

Hi Dragonchild,
In terms of Exploring Divination, hex 28.6>> 44 or High Over Head filling in the transition to the Next moving toward Lady Luck is generally not a "favorable" oracle. It corresponds to the 6th degree of Sagittarius with the Sabian Symbol of "There is a great display of colorful coming and going in a large concourse of people; it is a cricket game." Which probably means more to those who enjoy the week long cricket matches where there is lots of activity, much running back and forth and scoring, and the final outcome only emerges after long and tedious effort through the entire match.

This does seem to describe the relationship entanglement you describe. If you enjoy the game than you are a player and whatever is happening in this bout is of far less importance than the next one and the one after that.

Good Luck.
Frank

 

[meng]

Hi Dragonchild,

To me, this looks like a very highly charged situation, with only limits as to what you can do about it. From here it looks like "the situation" is over, and all you can do is go through it, and come out a better person for it. That is always our choice.

But that said, change is still implied. A great change will require greatness, and a small change requires only a little. I think this is his point of view. How much is he willing or able to change?

The best thing is just to be at peace with it, and with each other, and let small things grow naturally from there.