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I hope the dates below helpWhich was the first reading you cast? Was the Aug. 20th one first, or did 29.2.4 - 45 come before it?
You may not have gotten responses yet because so many readings are a lot for most of us. The first one will be the most important anyway, so if we just work on it for now it might be easier and could end up being all you need.
Which came first on Aug. 20th?
Summary: I think these mean you'll be fine, and you'll successfully fill your lives even without children.first -
How and what do you see about our future life together, considering that i m choosing not to have kids?
39.3.6 - 20 (20 Aug 2022)
second -
Are we going to overcome the pregnancy difficulties and continue to remain together in the future? 9.5-26 (20 Aug 2022)
Oh, this one...paraphrasing things Hilary has said about 50, I think this probably means the vessel of your marriage is big enough and sacred enough to contain, hold, and transform these difficulties.4. Will we stop loving each other and we separate? 50 unchanged
- this is the time for a change and for a new life? does it mean our life together will change and we will have our life separate?
Hi Liselle thank your for helping with Aug reading. It is indeed helpful more than you can imagine. I understand your interpretation .Summary: I think these mean you'll be fine, and you'll successfully fill your lives even without children.
39 to 20 - 39 is probably reflects your struggle to have children, and - seeing no end to this anytime soon, plus some danger - a decision to pause, not continue to make this offering/sacrifice, and look at a bigger picture (20).
39.3
'Going on, difficulties; coming back, turnaround.'
If you "come back" from the struggle, there will be turnaround. What kind of turnaround? Finding another way to belong, hexagram 8.
This probably won't be easy or immediate. Imagine struggling up a mountain path that gets harder and harder. Two things happen next. One, you have to make the decision to stop before you get to the top. This is difficult in itself. You seem already to have done this part.
Then you have to go back down the same way, before you can even begin to rest and regroup. In your situation this might mean a period of decompressing and processing, separately and together. You can't just immediately start over as if none of this ever happened.
39.6
'Going on limping; coming back, mastery.
Good fortune.
Harvest in seeing the great person.'
"Coming back" also means "mastery." Other translations say "maturity." Yi is telling you that's what you're doing here: mastering the situation (maybe instead of it mastering you), and making a mature decision. That might mean accepting that things don't always work out in life, sometimes even things that seem pretty basic.
(Note: this is Mylife's reading, not anyone else's. For someone else, continuing the struggle might be exactly the right thing to do.)
9.5 to 26
'With truth and confidence, hence bound together.
Rich in your neighbour.'
I think this is about you and your husband. You are "bound together" with "truth and confidence." What could be better to say about a marriage? I don't see any hint of divorce.
Also, 26 in the background, moving towards "Great Farming" - along with 8, this is another thing that makes me think you'll have a fulfilling life. Instead of raising children (er, "small beasts"....please take this metaphorically and forgive the exact words!), you'll probably find other worthwhile goals.
This is also good news and I m happy about what the oracle says in 50. It makes sense now with your help.Oh, this one...paraphrasing things Hilary has said about 50, I think this probably means the vessel of your marriage is big enough and sacred enough to contain, hold, and transform these difficulties.
There might be a shaky moment or two - this is a big life event, after all, you can't help but be affected - but you'll get past it. The Vessel's last word is 50.6 zhi 32: it endures.
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