Objective insights

[Telmina]

I have a relation I am searching to understand, and feel that I have become abit «stuck» in my analyses of it.
Therefor I now turn to this forum. I have followed it for many years without being a member, but have now become one, since I have worked alot with the I Ching Oracle and find it very interesting and giving. I hope that one or several of the experienced members in here will help me with these readings, as the relation I inquire about is a relation of very high importance to me.

My questions were:
1) I ask to get an objective insight into my relation with X: 12:3, 4 to 53
2) I ask to get an objective insight into X’s interest in me: 59: 3, 6 to 48.

Sincerly, T.

 

[rosada]

Welcome!
1) Does it seem like things are stuck?
2) Does it feel as if your friend isn’t putting much focus on your friendship lately?
Looks like there is underlying good will but no clear purpose. What do the lines say to you?

 

[Telmina]

Thank you so much, Rosada. You were the one I hoped would respond the most, as I have read many of your different posts and communication over the years, and like your touch about & insights about the Oracle alot.

I feel you are spot on with your questions;
My answers to them are: - yes, it seems like things are stuck, and also - yes, it feels like my friend isn’t putting much focus on our friendship lately.
And the way I feel about the friendship is absolutely that there is underlying good will but no clear purpose. He is a married man, and I might want to much of/ in our friendship.

I am very uncertain about how to interpret the lines in hexagram 59, I have always been, - especially the top line; is it about someone being afraid and distancing himself from a/ the situation, or is it about someone distancing himself from his innbuilt fears? What is your take on this line inparticulare? And what would be your take on this line in the total picture here?

 

[rosada]

59.6 in this situation probably is saying he feels your friendship has gone beyond appropriate boundaries.

Not everyone agrees we can get accurate readings when we consult the ic concerning other people’s feelings. I do think however these answers can give you solid advice for how to play it so while only he knows for sure what his true motivation is I think you are being told to assume that he is not mad at you, has not lost enthusiasm for you, but he recognizes it’s time to cool it. If you indicate by your attitude towards him now that you recognize his pull back and that you aren’t interested in leading him astray you can probably reestablish a karma clean friendly vibe.

 

[Telmina]

Thank you very much for your answers.
Sincerly, T.