Our relationship finished? hex 63

[springflower]

I think I have an easy answer this time. Unfortunately. Did our relationship finish? Hex 63. Already Completed. So does this mean that our relationship finished definitely?

 

[springflower]

Hmm I read a note about 63:
Judgment: All's well that ends well, but the new cycle demands as much willpower as the last. Make no drastic choices during a transition.
Perhaps there will be a new cycle between us and I have to stay calm without any action?

 

[Trojina]

I could be wrong but Yi aside for a moment does someone who wants to end a relationship for good say to their ex 'you need to prove your love' ?

Imagine for a moment you want to end a relationship totally. Your ex calls and you can tell they want you back. What would you say if you really wanted to finish. Would it be

a. No I'm really sorry but it's over

or

b. You must prove your love to me.

Frankly 'you must prove your love to me' implies that if you could prove it he would take you back. This sounds like game playing to me, more typically one used by women. All I'm saying is think about this logically, as if it were happening to a friend of yours. What would you tell her ?


Given what I know of the situation, which admittedly is very little, I would say he's playing games and the moment you let him go, stop calling he will start to get edgy and call you.

63uc here ? I'm not even sure you have properly separated. If you had he wouldn't be playing games and you wouldn't be calling him. So I am wondering if actually this relationship is already happening...it never ended. On the other hand it may signify it is over.

Again I can't tell you but I think you need to be a little more detached. Get wise to this perhaps. How is anyone meant to 'prove' their love anyway. If anyone is wondering why I mention this stuff about 'proving' love you will see that in other threads like this one http://www.onlineclarity.co.uk/friends/showthread.php?22393-Is-our-relationship-a-lost-case-38-6-54 springflower says the guy insists she prove her love then presumably he may just consider returning. Sounds like a power game to me at this point.

 

[springflower]

I would say that I don't know what to say.
It would easy to say that 63 means it's over and our relationship has nothing more to offer. But is this true? or maybe I have to stop any action and maybe something changes? I don't want to hope if there is no hope anymore.

 

[springflower]

Ok.. let's see if my question helps us a little:

Should I hope that we will be together again?
1.1
1.5
->50
It seems a good answer. 50 seems auspicious. But maybe I have to stop any action and what about 1.5?