Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).
That seems pretty off to me. Was he serious when he said they were 'sectarian'? If he was then that's a pretty crappy thing to say and very rejecting. What's he saying, they are a sect?? I looked up the word and that's what sectarian means.Anyway, last month one had a birthday, and they bought a present together, in which I was not included. When I asked one of the guys if I could join, he said they’ve already bought it and it was “expensive” and that they were kind of “sectarian”.
I know this all sounds like high school bull****, but it is really displeasing for me. I do have to keep this job, it’s a good job and I need it.
What should be my attitude in regards to my coworkers? 15 unchanging.
Being balanced? I thought I was already being that…Trying not to call attention on me, not talking too much, keeping a low profile? I wasn’t sharing a loooot of personal info anyways, just a little background when they asked.
They were nicer to me before. I know something happened but not sure of what since I didn’t do anything really. Should I talk to them about it? Should I ignore it?
Do you have actual advice on how to handle this based on 15 unchanging?
It could just be that, they all have known each other for so long and so it will take a while for you to slot in.I’m having difficulties at work. I’m the newest and these people have been working together for 10 years. They’re friends to each other, have lunch together, etc.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).