Please can someone advise

[crystalsunshine]

I have used the I-Ching for many years now. I have insecurities about my girlfriends feeling towards me, I know she is not been truthful. I have found out without her knowing about her chat room messages with an old work pal. They look suspicious.
Anyway I used the I Ching for guidance and got an 18 Hex with a moving line in the 4th place turning it into a 50 Hex.

Does anyone have any insight as to the meaning ?

 

[kevin]

Well, little of this is likely to be new to you.

18 is about correcting or renovating something which is corrupted.

Line 4 is (Eranos trans)
?Enriching the father?s corruption
Going not yet acquiring indeed.?

First line there:
Corruption of the father is probably best read as corruption in those areas where , for example, discipline and authority are concerned.

Enriching means you are making that error worse by your stance or approach ? albeit you may not have enacted anything yet.

Going on like this will lead to you gaining nothing.

50 ? The Ding ? Something is cooking or developing. In this case a situation? The situation could well be your feelings. This is probably the overall situation in which the 18.4 is situated.

I think the Yi is advising you to be clear firm and open and to lay boundaries down.

Hope it helps.

--Kevin

 

[kevin]

Sorry - I must be tired - a complete U turn on the advice.

Please read online.

--Kevin

 

[crystalsunshine]

thank you for you help this has helped me