Please : ) help interpret my reading for a relationship!

[seahorse7]

Hello Everyone!

I am a beginner with the Iching and am not too savvy trying to interpret the lines and meaning. I have strong feelings for someone I have known for a few months. I can feel the tension and energy between an and am curious about a possible relationship with him.

My question was, "What can I expect from a relationship with _____"

The Iching casted Hexagram 20 with the 6th line changing, which would become 8.

So confused! and would love some help!!

Thank you! : )

-C

 

[pocossin]

What can I expect from a relationship with _____?
20.6 > 8

Welcome to Clarity, Seahorse7. 20 suggest observation from a distance, and 8 suggests collaborative effort. I think, from the casting, that you and _____ could work well together, provided _____ recognizes you as an equal in the relationship. If you find this person humane and loving, then the casting is especially auspicious. Also, if you feel an ethnic kinship with _____ . If there are aspects of _____ that are immature, then the situation is inauspicious. Be sure of what you can handle. I wish you the best.

 

[seahorse7]

Thank you Pocossin!

This is great advice considering ____ is significantly older than me. I am still unsure how to approach the situation. Do I tell him or wait.... maybe I should do another reading asking how ____ will react if I tell him how I feel?

 

[gene]

seahorse

I completely agree with Pocassin but let me just add to it... In the sixth line, there is a need to really review everything and make sure that you are really seeing things as they are. You must know the entire spectrum of how you would relate here.

Now, just a word to think about. I assume you are female. At any rate. For females, there is not so much need to worry about how a man feels. He will not feel uncomfortable with being approached by a woman. A woman on the other hand, may if she does not perceive the man as being a potential mate. This causes a lot of trouble between men and women going both ways. You may get rejected, but men will usually do it nicely. However, I doubt that would even happen. Rejection is meaningless if there are no serious social repercussions from it, and a woman to a man, there usually are not.

Nevertheless, I do not necessarily see rejection here. Only that you need to really think this through and decide if it is really what you want.

Gene