Please help with my reading interpretation?

[kdedeaux4]

Due to recent changes regarding a relationship, I consulted the IC to ask for advice and insight on the situation.
I received Hex 53, lines 3 and 6, changing into hexagram 8. I've found different interpretations for these. For example in Hex 53, line 3 and line 6 seem to contradict one another, as 3 indicates mistakes made and the other indicates the right thing (choice?) being done/made. This seems to tell me that I've don the right thing and I've done the wrong thing. Could someone help me with your opinion/thougts on this reading?

How do the line interpretation go? Is it an evolution of an experience, as in line 1 changes through line 6 and all the lines in between as varying experiences of that situation?
Also, I consulted again as hexagram 8 suggests this... Thinking I'd receive more specific insight and understandng without having to ask for help....

Then, I received the same 53.3.6 changing to 8! Hmmmmmmm?????? So, again I asked for more clear insight into this(is this correct to do or too much on the same question?)
Then I received hex 10, lines 2 and 6, changing to hex 17.

This seems like a fairly positive reading, but I would realy appreciate insight and advice from all of you with experience in reading with IC.

Thank you again for this informative site and for all your kindness and assistance in my learning!

 

[Trojina]

Due to recent changes regarding a relationship, I consulted the IC to ask for advice and insight on the situation.
I received Hex 53, lines 3 and 6, changing into hexagram 8. I've found different interpretations for these. For example in Hex 53, line 3 and line 6 seem to contradict one another, as 3 indicates mistakes made and the other indicates the right thing (choice?) being done/made. This seems to tell me that I've don the right thing and I've done the wrong thing. Could someone help me with your opinion/thougts on this reading?

How do the line interpretation go? Is it an evolution of an experience, as in line 1 changes through line 6 and all the lines in between as varying experiences of that situation?
Also, I consulted again as hexagram 8 suggests this... Thinking I'd receive more specific insight and understandng without having to ask for help....

Then, I received the same 53.3.6 changing to 8! Hmmmmmmm?????? So, again I asked for more clear insight into this(is this correct to do or too much on the same question?)
Then I received hex 10, lines 2 and 6, changing to hex 17.

This seems like a fairly positive reading, but I would realy appreciate insight and advice from all of you with experience in reading with IC.

Thank you again for this informative site and for all your kindness and assistance in my learning!

People look at numerous changing lines many different ways, if you read around the site you'll see that. Anyway re 53.3.6 I might see it as something has been neglected or abandoned in the relationship (53.3) the right care and nourishment isn't given to it so it doesn't develop. In 53.6 the whole issue is transcended, one learns from it and moves on. Hexagram 8 is concerned with what or who you feel you truly belong with. Looking at these together maybe you found the relationship wasn' t nourishing or caring in some way, so perhaps in line 6 its left behind as an experience you've learned from. Almost like you've learned in this what isn't good enough or right for you emotionally so perhaps theres a better idea of what is needed or where you do belong.
Thats the basic idea i get from it,, if you can adapt that to your question if it makes any sense

 

[willowfox]

Hex 53, lines 3 and 6, changing into hexagram 8

Well, this suggests that the relationship is off the tracks, it is over and cannot be renewed and this shows the end of the affair, that you are no longer involved, you leave it behind.

 

[zhan1]

Line 3 of Hex 53 is showing you a little scene that perhaps you have experienced already and this has prompted you to consult the Yi. It goes something like this--there has been a disagreement or even a fight and someone wants to walk out the door. The other person reacts to this by giving up in frustration. The counsel here is to avoid attacking each other and to make peace.
Line 2 of Hex 10 is a continuation of this counsel--go forward calmly and peacefully.
This is advantageous.

 

[meng]

This seems to tell me that I've don the right thing and I've done the wrong thing. Could someone help me with your opinion/thougts on this reading?

I don't mean to discount the values of right and wrong, but things may flow more smoothly for you if you lay judgment aside. Then you can proceed in a natural and consistent way (53) and keep it together (8).