Please Show Me An Image...

[peace66]

Hello To All!
For A Relationship I Asked:
1) Please show me an image of how he relates to me...50, 6/1, 9/6, 34

2) Please show me an image of how I relate to him...40, 9/4, 7

3) What will be the results of our relationship?...64, 6/3, 50

Thanks For All Insights...

This relationship is one I haven't asked about before. He is also younger than I am and
I am considering a long-term relationship.

Much Thanks To All...

Peace

 

[cejudesc]

peace

One would dare to ask: what is your real concern about the relation? Seems to me there is one concern, under too much questions; but what do I know, anyway?

 

[peace66]

Fair enough Cejudesc!!

peace

One would dare to ask: what is your real concern about the relation? Seems to me there is one concern, under too much questions; but what do I know, anyway?

I have too many questions and too many relationships!!
This one is a different relationship than any of my previous posts.
I am really concerned about long-term potential with this one. He is also younger
than I am. Any thoughts would be appreciated.
Peace

 

[rosada]

Peace,
You may find it easier to type your answers using a system several of us use here.

If I were to write:

50, 6/1, 9/6, 34
using this system,

it would look like:
50.1.6 >34.

Using this system you put the number of the first hexagram first, then put a period. Then if there was any change line you do not need to mention if you got a six or a nine, simply post the numer of the change line. If there were several change lines, then post a period between them. Then use this sign > to indicate you are now going to post the number of the second hexagram.

Just thought I'd mention it.

 

[willowfox]

1) Please show me an image of how he relates to me...50, 6/1, 9/6, 34

Hex 50.1 in your desire to remove yourself from what you see as a stagnating situation, you have latched on to this guy because you see him as something clean and fresh who will be quite content to look after you and your daughter, you think that he has great potential.

Hex 50.6 you believe that his heart is in the right place and that he has much to offer.

Hex 34 you consider him a strong person who can have a positive impact on your situation.

"2) Please show me an image of how I relate to him...40, 9/4, 7

Hex 40.4 this suggests that he is only interested in you for selfish reasons.

Hex 7 says that is desire is to control you.

"3) What will be the results of our relationship?...64, 6/3, 50

Hex 64.3 this suggests that you would not be in a good position if you were to enter into a relationship with this guy, it further says that don't even try to make this relationship work, call it a day and wait for some better opportunity to come along.

Hex 50 this says to focus on the here and now, to look after those people in you immediate circle. It is no good to go running after this relationship because the future holds great potential for you, so just let your fate unravel slowly. Stop thinking about what you want in the world of the material and try to see things differently by seeking solutions within rather than earthly solutions with out. So make the best of your current situation because it holds the potential for something far better to come.

 

[laylab]

I have too many questions and too many relationships!!
Peace

Tell me about it Sister! So do I!!!

 

[cejudesc]

"Potential" for what?..

Does your concern is the prospect for a romantic partnership whit that younger man?.

 

[peace66]

Thanks Rosada...

Peace,
You may find it easier to type your answers using a system several of us use here.

If I were to write:

50, 6/1, 6/9, 34
using this system,

it would look like:
50.1.9 >34.

Using this system you put the number of the first hexagram first, then put a period. Then if there was any change line you do not need to mention if you got a six or a nine, simply post the numer of the change line. If there were several change lines, then post a period between them. Then use this sign > to indicate you are now going to post the number of the second hexagram.

Just thought I'd mention it.

Thank you, Rosada. I'll start posting that way.
Peace

 

[peace66]

Much Appreciation Willowfox...

1) Please show me an image of how he relates to me...50, 6/1, 9/6, 34

Hex 50.1 in your desire to remove yourself from what you see as a stagnating situation, you have latched on to this guy because you see him as something clean and fresh who will be quite content to look after you and your daughter, you think that he has great potential.

Hex 50.6 you believe that his heart is in the right place and that he has much to offer.

Hex 34 you consider him a strong person who can have a positive impact on your situation.

"2) Please show me an image of how I relate to him...40, 9/4, 7

Hex 40.4 this suggests that he is only interested in you for selfish reasons.

Hex 7 says that is desire is to control you.

"3) What will be the results of our relationship?...64, 6/3, 50

Hex 64.3 this suggests that you would not be in a good position if you were to enter into a relationship with this guy, it further says that don't even try to make this relationship work, call it a day and wait for some better opportunity to come along.

Hex 50 this says to focus on the here and now, to look after those people in you immediate circle. It is no good to go running after this relationship because the future holds great potential for you, so just let your fate unravel slowly. Stop thinking about what you want in the world of the material and try to see things differently by seeking solutions within rather than earthly solutions with out. So make the best of your current situation because it holds the potential for something far better to come.

Thank you, Willowfox. That's why I like this forum so much. I certainly do appreciate
all the concern and impartial outlooks to help me gain perspective.
Thanks Again...
Peace

 

[peace66]

Hi Laylab...

Tell me about it Sister! So do I!!!

Hi, Laylab!! That's why we come to this forum!!
Peace

 

[peace66]

Hello Cejudesc...

"Potential" for what?..

Does your concern is the prospect for a romantic partnership whit that younger man?.

Yes, Cejudesc. Romantic Partnership is my concern. That's why I love this forum and
The I Ching so much. I'm learning alot and I gain a more balanced perspective, which I
most certainly need!
Thanks much...
Peace

 

[cejudesc]

Peace

About your prospect for a romantic relationship with this younger man for the next 6 months, one would say is not a good prospect. A dificult situation, like being one husband, two wifes and two childs. The man has strong feelings for both women. The closer woman (his formal wife? a long-term enterprise?) will take a decisive action after him and against you. This action will reinforce her position, so he will be bound to her, instead of being bound to you.

One would say this, but what do I know anyway?

 

[Tohpol]

One would say this, but what do I know anyway?

I don't suppose there's a small chance that you could cease ending your posts with "What do i know anyway?"

I know. In the scheme of things it's a really insignificant point isn't it? I mean it's only a post signature right?

You see, this reference to the cultivation of a lack of ego; or modesty; deference - call it what you will - eventually becomes exactly the opposite of what you're trying to show. In the end, the irritation of its repetition makes it horribly fake.

I'm not picking on you Cejudesc, really. And I can't force you to stop irritating the hell out of me with this. Perhaps it's my problem. Probably is. I can go with that. I am getting irritated at most things right now, that's true. But I have a suspicion I'm not the only one gritting his/her teeth on this.

Anyway, no offence meant, just wanted to see if it there was a chance for you to change it for something else. I'm sure we can all help with some suggestions...

Failing that, feel free to ignore.

Now I'll go and do something more meaningful.

Topal

 

[Trojina]

I don't suppose there's a small chance that you could cease ending your posts with "What do i know anyway?"

I have a suspicion I'm not the only one gritting his/her teeth on this.

Topal

Well yeah Topal you're not alone there, but what do I know ?

 

[cejudesc]

what is your suggestion?

 

[cejudesc]

BTW... is there a chance you notice not every post of mine ends with that expression? could it be this has nothing to do neither with "modesty" nor "deference"? could it be another reason? could this reason lose it's meaning if it is verbalized and intelectualized? could this move you to study in order to understand why on earth someone uses this expression related to Yijing studies?

just some questions. be happy.

 

[Tohpol]

what is your suggestion?

Hmmm. Not sure. How about we open it up to the Forum?

Perhaps another thread....One second...

Topal

 

[Tohpol]

BTW... is there a chance you notice not every post of mine end with that expression? could it be this has nothing to do neither with "modesty" nor "deference"? could it be other reason? could this reason lose it's meaning if it is verbalized and intelectualized? just some questions.

Could be. You may be right there. I would say MOST of your posts end that way with slight variations on the same theme... Either way, what you wish to convey is not getting through so let's try a different tack.

Topal

 

[cejudesc]

and your suggestion is....

btw... who says i wish to convey anything to others with this expression?. What if this expression is part of some techincalisms for me and my work? How can you know if this is having effect, since you are not me?

 

[Tohpol]

and your suggestion is....

Patience is a virtue....

Topal

 

[Tohpol]

Patience is a virtue....

Topal

That's not my suggestion btw...just give me a moment..

 

[cejudesc]

of course.

you're right: I missed your first post, about another thread. my mistake, sorry for that

 

[peace66]

Thanks Cejudesc!!

Peace

About your prospect for a romantic relationship with this younger man for the next 6 months, one would say is not a good prospect. A dificult situation, like being one husband, two wifes and two childs. The man has strong feelings for both women. The closer woman (his formal wife? a long-term enterprise?) will take a decisive action after him and against you. This action will reinforce her position, so he will be bound to her, instead of being bound to you.

One would say this, but what do I know anyway?

Thanks again, Cejudesc. I'm pretty good understanding timing with Tarot Cards,
but I'll have to study timing in the I Ching. I saw another post about Yi Timing.
That should keep me occupied for a while!!

Thanks Again,
Peace