Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
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Hey everyone,
Context: I met this person during Spring and asked them out after the last day of class. The date went great, we had so much in common and they also agreed and thought I was a great person. However, they later mentioned that they weren't ready for a relationship when I sent a follow up text after our date. We texted a bit here and there after but then they went cold when Summer quarter started to kick in. I mistakenly try to get them to come to an event I knew they'd like to go but they didn't reply. But now that Summer quarter is over, I was curious on how things may look but don't feel like I should be the one to contact them after various attempts already.
Castings:
"What are they planning to do after their finals?"
20.3 Contemplation -> 53 Development, Gradual Progress
"What should I do now?"
26.2.3.4 The Taming Power of the Great -> 21 Biting Through
"What do I need to know about our relationship?"
28.6 Preponderance of the Great -> 44. Coming to Meet
"What do they want to tell me right now?"
3.6 Difficulty at the Beginning -> 42 Increase
My interpretation:
I've done these over the spread of the last two weeks. The ball has been very much in their court and it seems like the I Ching is furthering that point. I'm guessing this is just a wait a see type of situation? If that's the case then I guess they weren't necessarily lying when they said they weren't ready for a relationship then.
These all seem to be extremely favorable casting for my situation. However, I won't hold my breath as I'm looking at this whole situation as already done deal just so I don't get my hopes up and get more hurt. I really like this person and believe something is there between us but I'm starting to value my sanity a bit more even when it hurts. Not sure if I'd like to do anymore castings unless someone has a really good question that I could ask.
Before these castings, I've told my friend about the situation and they think that maybe they weren't expecting to like me so much on the date? It was a nice thought but also further sets me into delulu land lol.
Context: I met this person during Spring and asked them out after the last day of class. The date went great, we had so much in common and they also agreed and thought I was a great person. However, they later mentioned that they weren't ready for a relationship when I sent a follow up text after our date. We texted a bit here and there after but then they went cold when Summer quarter started to kick in. I mistakenly try to get them to come to an event I knew they'd like to go but they didn't reply. But now that Summer quarter is over, I was curious on how things may look but don't feel like I should be the one to contact them after various attempts already.
Castings:
"What are they planning to do after their finals?"
20.3 Contemplation -> 53 Development, Gradual Progress
"What should I do now?"
26.2.3.4 The Taming Power of the Great -> 21 Biting Through
"What do I need to know about our relationship?"
28.6 Preponderance of the Great -> 44. Coming to Meet
"What do they want to tell me right now?"
3.6 Difficulty at the Beginning -> 42 Increase
My interpretation:
I've done these over the spread of the last two weeks. The ball has been very much in their court and it seems like the I Ching is furthering that point. I'm guessing this is just a wait a see type of situation? If that's the case then I guess they weren't necessarily lying when they said they weren't ready for a relationship then.
These all seem to be extremely favorable casting for my situation. However, I won't hold my breath as I'm looking at this whole situation as already done deal just so I don't get my hopes up and get more hurt. I really like this person and believe something is there between us but I'm starting to value my sanity a bit more even when it hurts. Not sure if I'd like to do anymore castings unless someone has a really good question that I could ask.
Before these castings, I've told my friend about the situation and they think that maybe they weren't expecting to like me so much on the date? It was a nice thought but also further sets me into delulu land lol.