Question about prospects of a relationship- 56.3.6 to 16

[kacheek1000]

Hi, I asked the Iching about the chances of me having a relationship with someone I am very fond of. We really got along very well but someone else won her heart. While the man doesn't seem to be the right person for her and I am in no position to judge, I have been struggling in my heart about whether to move on or just wait for another chance.

My results are 56.3.6 to 16,which is interesting since travelling and long distance relationships are part of this issue.

Appreciate any advice thanks thanks a lot.

 

[rosada]

Both lines 3 and 6 of hexagram 56 warn the traveler that he must not press his interests at this time or he will wear out his welcome. Travel leading to Enthusiasm says to me that moving on is your best option.

 

[blue_angel]

Hi,

I am not saying Rosada is wrong, because I love Rosada's work. However, I often feel there is more than one way a reading can answer. So I thought I might contribute just incase its helpful, from my own experience with this reading, and out of curiosity. Here's another way I see this...

(16)- you were happy and possibly shared enthusiasm with her. Advise can be prepare yourself for any opportunity and take action the moment there is. However...

(56)- you weren't committed and you now feel out of place.

Line (3)- by treating her like a stranger you lose her. Is it possible you did not treat her with care? Did you have a big ego about something, or were you carefree? That's what I see this line pointing to.

Line (6)- did you fail to be receptive to her? Did you not believe her truth? Were you selfish, failing to show care, understanding, or lacking in being attentive? That's what I see this line pointing to.

(56)- says there can be small progress so maybe you can make amends or at least remain friends. The thing to me is, this reading can be about the overall situation, what has happened, and what is happening now. I'm not sure if you have completely lost her or not. The lines to me show some mistakes have either been made to lead you where you are now, or you could be making a mistake now by not letting her be. They're damage control lines. Its like, "hey, you made these mistakes, this is what you did wrong, change that attitude, and fix what you can." If this doesn't resonate with you, then I would agree with Rosada. I feel it could be either.

Blue_Angel

 

[ScorpioC]

WOW! I just asked if X felt bad I left. We had an arguement and I had enough of X's arrogance and refusal to see my side of things. I receiived 56.3.6. to 16. I stumbled across this looking for meanings.
Line 3...X is known for their ego. Everytime I ask a question...literally walk away...rude.
Line 6...refusal to appreciate my hurt feelings over it.
56...we're talking again, but damage is done...regardless who may be at fault
16..X had complimented me on progress of a mutual goal about an hour before the "fall out"
Thought I'd share.

 

[mirian]

I am sorry to burst the bubble here, but the wanderer represented by lines 3 and 6 is up to a rude awakening. That is my experience anyway, so hope it pans out in a different way to somebody :bows: