Question: New Home 46.2 > 15 or 24 unchanging

[Katetgh]

Hi Everyone,

I would greatly appreciate any insights you have into my reading.

My current home is being sold (my former partner's and my place) and I am debating between living in two new homes:

A) 46.2 to 15
(I also peeked at 15.2 in this case, in the event it has any bearing as well, though I think most people believe it does not)

B) 24 unchanging

I am not sure how much context to provide based on how many angles I see within the readings...so thanks for bearing with me and for your help! I'd welcome any thoughts, wisdom and opinions. Please let me know if there's anything specific that would be useful for me to clarify or share.

46.2>15 is not incredibly clear to me, I initially read it as slightly beneficial, just not overwhelmingly so. Assisting in the continuation of slow, gradual "pushing upward" that I need to do in my life, putting in the work and not expecting too much? Would love your thoughts.

24 is a challenge for me since it seems to read either positively in terms of my living there -returning to what I initially wanted, helping me return to my core authentic self and deeper priorities, starting/building somewhat anew while staying true to who I am and bringing that forward more in life to shape it in a more sustainable and meaningful way long-term.
Or, it can be seen as less positive in terms of repeating the same cycle I've been stuck in, ending up right back where I am now and choosing my comfort zone and perceived stability again over growth/change for the better.
I've felt I need to keep both of these angles for improvement in mind recently, prior to consulting the iching about this move, so it's tough to know which way this reading is pointing me. Others' experiences have also reflected both, from what I have read.

24 is within walking distance to my current home, office (whenever we return from remote work), and someone I care for that I would see more easily there. I had been set on this area and hunting exclusively in it for a month without seeing much before exploring a little bit further based on encouragement from friends and finding 46.2 last week, which appeared to be a good option besides the location change and fell into my lap easily. I was a little nervous about leaving my original "zone" and what that might mean but spent a sunny afternoon in the area, had been adjusting to the idea and felt somewhat settled on it until today when 24 popped up.
I had wondered perhaps if the change of area with 46.2 could even help propel me (only slightly) forward, however there was still a question in my mind if I really needed to or if it was wise to give up my former priority (current location & proximity to someone I care for). Am I leaving behind something good for me that matters by not choosing 24?

Am I going back to what was important to me when I was first looking at new homes (staying physically close to someone I care for and my home "zone"), remembering who I am at my core, nurturing that and trying to make long term decisions with that in mind?
Or am I choosing the same old, that might deter me from becoming unstuck and breaking patterns that won't serve me in building a more meaningful life. Am I choosing the same things that don't serve, or things that have?

Home is very important to me, and I have a hard time with change and decisions even under normal circumstances - I tend to seek security above all else. I think the matter of where to live is taking on an even bigger significance than normal this time as I am becoming more concerned about my long term future in life and love, questioning it more and becoming more cognizant of the long-term effects of my decisions. I am going to have to figure out how to slowly build more of a meaningful life for myself, regardless of if I have to let go of some previous ideas. Or regardless of where I live!

That was a very long tangent. Thank you again for your thoughts!

 

[diamanda]

I would go for 24 uc. Friends come and go, no problem, easy-going life.

46.2 > 15 is also good, it shows making a small sacrifice so as to get over something. 15 is a modest result. So, it's ok, but I would certainly prefer 24 unchanging for a home.

 

[Katetgh]

I would go for 24 uc. Friends come and go, no problem, easy-going life.

46.2 > 15 is also good, it shows making a small sacrifice so as to get over something. 15 is a modest result. So, it's ok, but I would certainly prefer 24 unchanging for a home.

Thank you, Diamanda.

That sounds like an accurate summary of 46.2. It offers me a decent home since I need to move and allows me to stop searching/worrying about where to live, however involves the small sacrifice of the area/proximity I wanted.
Also reassuring about 24.

I think sometimes I read too much into it and do not take things literally enough, so it's helpful to bring it back.
(For example, I had 59 - dispersion for two other places and read a lot into it at the time however I think it literally just meant that those options would disperse as I realized they weren't best for me, and that would bring me success/better options)

 

[chingching]

24 UC is also about returning to your tao.

Nothing wrong with looking at the 'fan yao' I always find it helpful, who cares what some people think, use what works for you I say.

24 UC always makes me think of that scene in seven brides for seven brothers where they manage to steal the girls from their homes to their farm just before the pass is closed for winter. At first they feel like prisoners but then they fall in love with their captors... its a strange film, replete with sexism of its time, yet the feistiness of the women in parts inches towards early 50's feminism. It has some truly classic musical numbers in it, including one with the line "Can't make no vows to a herd of cows." When spring comes and the pass is open, all the women choose to marry the backwoodsmen, and they stay there, happily ever after.

 

[rosada]

Great story, ching,ching!

46.2 - 15 struck me as being a description of what your experience would be this house and neighborhood - like 46.2 is you bringing your friendship and goodwill into the neighborhood and 15. is you being greeted with equal respect. So if your main concern was about the neighborhood this answer seems to be reassuring that wont be a problem if you make an effort to be neighborly.

24. reads to me as if to say that in comparison to the first house this residence would be more of a hideaway, maybe not so much involvement with the neighbors.

Let us know what you decide!

 

[Olga Super Star]

I would go with 24 too.
24 for me has been finding roots, going into psychoanalysis, finding myself and a sense of balance.
Also often returning home.

24 UC always makes me think of that scene in seven brides for seven brothers where they manage to steal the girls from their homes to their farm just before the pass is closed for winter.

My favourite passage is when the married woman kicks all the men out to sleep in the stable and says, "The house is for the girls"