question of a friend of mine for me

[nAstWr]

A friend of mine asked yi about me and my ex about two months ago.
I decided to share the cast with you as it is not influenced by my emotions. I have asked a lot of questions about the matter. I tend to believe that there are no hopes anymore.

Her question was: Will x and y be together again?
Hexagram 29 changing lines 3,4,5 to hexagram 32

The answer seems as yes to me, especially because of 32. I am afraid that I can't see clearly because of my emotions.
Your help would be really appreciated.

 

[rosada]

32,I think the I Ching is saying there is an enduring bond between these two on a soul level.
29.3 For now the girl must go deep within herself and connect with him through her inner feelings.
29.4 When she recognizes that this connection is alive and well on the inner level
29.5 she will not strive for a more physical demonstration, in fact she may come to prefer communicating this way.

 

[nAstWr]

rosada the girl you mean me, right? Indeed, I have a problem to manage and control my emotions and I should find my center. I am slightly confused, does hexagram 32 gives any hope?

 

[rosada]

I don't think 32 is hopeful for your current situation to change. I think things will Endure as they are but I think the lines of 29 give you encouragement for how you can live with this, which is to know in your heart that you and he loved each other and although he doesn't care to continue the friendship you can be content (29.5) knowing that. "Don't be sad because it's over. Be glad because it happened."

 

[nAstWr]

thank you rosada.