Question reading : Does she have feelings for me? 55 changing to 56

[Michael333]

Hello all.

I am posting about a recent reading I received when I asked the question 'Does she have feelings for me'

The question was directed at someone who I recently met so it is at an early stage in our connection. We both told each other that we felt a connection there. It was a natural, unforced feeling and one which doesn't come along too often. She is from quite a different background than me. We are different race also. I being Caucasian and she African.

We had agreed that we would like to see each other again to get to know each other better. I usually don't read too much into things when at such an early stage but this person was on my mind quite a lot. They reached out to me and told me they had been thinking about me too. It was all going well and we had arranged to meet again. I was looking forward to seeing her and vice versa.

However, in the interim, she has now pulled back from meeting again twice. She had valid excuses for this but it is always very hard to tell if someone is just feeling cold feet. It seemed strange to me as she seems to be an honest person and not afraid of expressing how she feels. When we were first together she expressed that she had not felt this kind of attraction to someone in a long while.

In my confusion I turned to the I Ching with the above question and received 55 (Abundance) changing to 56 (travelling)

This seems like a positive reading to me but I am not seeing how it relates to the current reality. Any thoughts on this would be very much appreciated. I hope I've provided enough context.

 

[rosada]

55. isn't so much "abundance" as in having things but abundance in something reaching it's peak, like a mountain climber who reaches the top of the mountain and then 56. is the traveler having reached this goal moves on. So in reference to the situation here it suggests the enthusiasm of the connection has spent itself and she's moved on. I don't think this necessarily means you should abandon your pursuit but as far as whether she has feelings for you it suggests she's no longer there. I suggest you keep calling but stop suggesting meetings, just say you're checking in!

 

[Michael333]

55. isn't so much "abundance" as in having things but abundance in something reaching it's peak, like a mountain climber who reaches the top of the mountain and then 56. is the traveler having reached this goal moves on. So in reference to the situation here it suggests the enthusiasm of the connection has spent itself and she's moved on. I don't think this necessarily means you should abandon your pursuit but as far as whether she has feelings for you it suggests she's no longer there. I suggest you keep calling but stop suggesting meetings, just say you're checking in!

Ah. I can see the relevance of this perspective. Perhaps this is what the I ching is telling me. That it was just a sudden surge of connection that wasn't supposed to last. I will have a think about this. Thanks for the reply.

 

[Michael333]

Ah. I can see the relevance of this perspective. Perhaps this is what the I ching is telling me. That it was just a sudden surge of connection that wasn't supposed to last. I will have a think about this. Thanks for the reply.

Also, just in reference as to what to do. I was not the one suggest meeting each time. It was equal on both sides. That is why it was confusing.