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Hello all!
I hope everyone is great.
I wanted to get some clarity on a few questions of mine.
My marriage has been wonderful. We overcame the difficulties, patched rough spots, and moved on with our lives. We are trying for a baby. But amidst all of this bliss I can't help, but feel strangely unhappy. I think the problem is that despite me trying my hardest to accept him for who he is I really can't do that. The set of his beliefs, his family rub me off a slightly wrong way.
Yesterday, we had a conversation about his father's property in the armpit of Florida. I couldn't help, but to be blunt and told him that I do not see having that property, in that location, in that condition to be beneficial for us. But I agreed to be silent about it and make the best out of the situation since it is his deceased father's property and has sentimental value for my husband. He got upset, called me unsupportive, and added that I do not anything but criticize him and use fruits of his labor. It made me feel like complete sh"""", I felt very little and useless. Until now I can't talk to him, see him, hear him. I wish he disappeared. I was sitting there and seriously considering calling it quits.
To add to the situation, my parents who are back in my home country are getting very sick and old. I am the only child and sooner or later I will have to go there for 4-5 months or longer and support them. I can't say it will be good for my marriage, I think it will just simply destroy it. I wanted to see what IChing thought of that and asked the question.
What is the future of my marriage given the situation (me having to go back to my home country at some point to take care of my elderly parents)?
33.3>12
I asked this question at 1 o'clock in the morning not being able to sleep. So I decided that it is IChing's way of telling me to wait till my head is clear and not to make any decisions.
This morning I made a general inquiry. Lines 5 and 6 are extremely confusing. I looked through Forum and what I could make of these lines is that I have to be acting from my heart and be considerate of him. But still no advise on the particular action.
What should I do about this marriage?
42.5.6>24
Tonight I wondered again.
What is the picture of my life if I stay married to him? 42.1.5>23
42 again, and two auspicious lines. Does it mean my life be great with him? But what is stripping away means.
I would appreciate any advice on this one.
Thank you!
Love, Vikk
I hope everyone is great.
I wanted to get some clarity on a few questions of mine.
My marriage has been wonderful. We overcame the difficulties, patched rough spots, and moved on with our lives. We are trying for a baby. But amidst all of this bliss I can't help, but feel strangely unhappy. I think the problem is that despite me trying my hardest to accept him for who he is I really can't do that. The set of his beliefs, his family rub me off a slightly wrong way.
Yesterday, we had a conversation about his father's property in the armpit of Florida. I couldn't help, but to be blunt and told him that I do not see having that property, in that location, in that condition to be beneficial for us. But I agreed to be silent about it and make the best out of the situation since it is his deceased father's property and has sentimental value for my husband. He got upset, called me unsupportive, and added that I do not anything but criticize him and use fruits of his labor. It made me feel like complete sh"""", I felt very little and useless. Until now I can't talk to him, see him, hear him. I wish he disappeared. I was sitting there and seriously considering calling it quits.
To add to the situation, my parents who are back in my home country are getting very sick and old. I am the only child and sooner or later I will have to go there for 4-5 months or longer and support them. I can't say it will be good for my marriage, I think it will just simply destroy it. I wanted to see what IChing thought of that and asked the question.
What is the future of my marriage given the situation (me having to go back to my home country at some point to take care of my elderly parents)?
33.3>12
I asked this question at 1 o'clock in the morning not being able to sleep. So I decided that it is IChing's way of telling me to wait till my head is clear and not to make any decisions.
This morning I made a general inquiry. Lines 5 and 6 are extremely confusing. I looked through Forum and what I could make of these lines is that I have to be acting from my heart and be considerate of him. But still no advise on the particular action.
What should I do about this marriage?
42.5.6>24
Tonight I wondered again.
What is the picture of my life if I stay married to him? 42.1.5>23
42 again, and two auspicious lines. Does it mean my life be great with him? But what is stripping away means.
I would appreciate any advice on this one.
Thank you!
Love, Vikk