relation ship 15 1,3>24

[kativa]

hi dears!!!

today i had a stupid discussion with my boyfriend. Our relation is never easy because ill communication... but t, i'm in love and this make me happy,at the same time, i feel nervous because this troubles..and i'm jeallouss of his new friend .

So,after the discussion i asked to the i ching

what should be my attitude in my relation? 35 2,6 > 40

what are his feelings to our relation? 62,2 >32

what the future of our relation after this discussion? 15 1,3 >24

thanks a lot for your tips <3

 

[kativa]

i still dont knowing what to do.inseven days he is going in tour with his new friend and i'm going to stay in the city working,funny summer! the i jing says to be like the sun in midday, progress and liberation, be free. With this ican understand to let it go all this bad thinking, or put an end to this relation? thismy doubt.my heart is confused.he is making nothingto makesme feel better, and the continuity could be continuity in his way of behavoiur, far from me.
so, the modesty can be accept that we've got a relation to difficult to keep on going and we have to keep in our own tao,instead the try something that it doesnt works.
do u think that the i jing suggest something like thisor i'm to cofused and i'munderstanding allthe opposite because i'm afraid and feeling weak?

what do ui think?

thanks

 

[maverickcc]

I suggest you should be strong, and you have no other choice, to face your boy friend.

 

[themis]

Hi Kativa,

My impression is that your interpretation is quite accurate. I'd add that the lines in 35.2.6 give
a picture of the situation at the time you did the cast and your position in relation thereto.
Line 2 suggests apprehension whilst prospering and line 6 indicates discord, etc.

The future re. the relationship looks bleak. However, attempt to enjoy the summer as much as possible and when he returns have a discussion to determine whether the relationship is worth
pursuing. Don't endure silent suffering. Carpe diem ...

 

[kativa]

HI!!
thanks for your answers!
i'd like to know what maverickcc means exactly with "face your boyfriend"
and if someone can tell what to think about the question what can i expect from him? 62,2>32

we spent last night togheter with no so goods results. the communication still missing. instead the be happy planing how to meet us after mu month and his month of holidays, we argued!!!!

i 'd like that we meet, he says that he will like too, but we dont find a communion point...

i feel so divided between keep on trying or let it go! i dont know what to do,really, but all my quietness is gone! grgrggrgrgrggrgr

in 5 days he is going...i even starting to think to leave everything and go with him!!
he is just telling me to take a decission, that he hates that i'm always son unsure,but how can i be more sure if he's so cold!! grgrgrggrgrgr