Relationship 53.2 to 52, 19.2 to 24, 11, 40, 54.1 to 40

[nikisanders]

Hello,

I have got really confused about a man. I asked a series of questions to lighten me up. Can i have your comments on my casts?

as a summery i have met with that man short time ago. thing improved very fast between us the first 2 weeks were like we could not get apart from each other, spent every possible time together. but then he started not to call me, while i call him. He is warm and sympathetic on the phone and really involved with me when we are together. Last week it was my birthday. While he was asking to get together and meet with my friends before and declare that of course he is going to be there to shake hands with my friends, he tald me that his dad is in town and he is going to be with him. And that was our last call. I also stopped calling him.

what is his projection about me?
and i got 53.2 changing to 52

do we have a future?
19.2 changing to 24

should i call him?
11 unchanging

should i wait for him to call?
40 unchanging

and what is the oracles advise on this relationship?
54.1 changin to 40

please help me!

 

[mirian]

"what is his projection about me?
and i got 53.2 changing to 52"

He enjoys your company and is happy to spend a nice time with you.

"do we have a future?
19.2 changing to 24"

Yes.

"should i call him?
11 unchanging"

No.

"should i wait for him to call?
40 unchanging"

Yes

"and what is the oracles advise on this relationship?
54.1 changin to 40"

Accept the fact that at the moment you haven't got that leverage, you're not in a strong position to have things as you want. So don't try to control or lead this relationship or you will fail.

 

[nikisanders]

Thank you for sharing with me.

your answers were really direct.

I am just confused about hex 11 unchanging. this as i understand if i call there will be a harmony. But you advise not to call. fr the future readings can you tell me more on this one?

 

[Sixth Relative]

Agreed about 11 being an hexagram for harmony and communication rather than an hexagram for not communicate. Also, hex 40 is like a dam filled to the edge and risking to break and cause a huge flood in the entire valley. In hex 40 you need to actively release the tension before is too late; not the kind of hexagram for waiting or being passive.

 

[mirian]

Hi nickisanders,

I am looking at hex 11 here as a state of balance, and in my view that applies to you, your emotions and thoughts. There are no changing lines to support any action, so this balance is within yourself, not taking a step out (to call him).
Also, I am not reading hex 11 in isolation. In my view, it makes sense in the context of the other hexagrams and changing lines.

Hope that helps.

 

[nikisanders]

Thank ou fo sharing with me

by looking at both hex 11 and hex 40 it sounded to me like if i dont call everything is going to fade out in time and we going to loose the chance.

i did not call him yet.(he did not call either) i am really confuse dright now this may cause of the hormones that i have not been with somebody for a long time. i dont want to push anybody including myself to an unwanted position.

I may not be ready to hear negative things from him. i prefer to to imagine that he is negative about the situation and decide without him speaking it out load.

 

[nikisanders]

Hi nickisanders,

I am looking at hex 11 here as a state of balance, and in my view that applies to you, your emotions and thoughts. There are no changing lines to support any action, so this balance is within yourself, not taking a step out (to call him).

thank you again sharing with me.

what about my first question. my first question is asking other ones opinion about myself. Is the answer is something my minds mirroring? or directly from my mind?



Also, I am not reading hex 11 in isolation. In my view, it makes sense in the context of the other hexagrams and changing lines.

without asking i ching. what i think the best is not to call. he can call if he wants to tell me anything. but after i cast for those questions i really got confused.

Hope that helps.

of course any comments helps me right now. better than tring to get out by myself from the situation. thank you again

 

[mirian]

*what about my first question. my first question is asking other ones opinion about myself. Is the answer is something my minds mirroring? or directly from my mind?"

Hi nickisanders,

We often debate whether we should be asking questions about someone else's feelings towards us, trying to gauge their decisions or actions. We shouldn't do really, but human nature we occasionally do. Personally, I believe that if we ask we get the answer. That is how I interpreted your 1st question, the Yi actually telling you his point of view, not yours.

 

[nikisanders]

Hello,

I would like to post the recent news about my case. It may help others.

After my casts I could not hold myself and called him. after 1 week that we had our last call. He answered the phone by asking if i get cool down or not? I our last call it was my birthday nite (thursday) but i was to celebrate on weekend. I asked him to share a couple of drinks but he had some other family plans so he could not join me which i did not like. So he thinks that i was mad at him and did not want him on my birthday cause i did not call him back to ask if he is going to be at the party or not. I did not buy it of course. Anyways and at that call we decided to meet at monday. We again have spoken on saturday and he confirmed if we going to be together on monday or not.

But when we reach monday I called him 1 hour ago of the meeting time and he answered in a very bad situation. He apologized thousand times and told e that it is not possible for him to socialize at the point he was standing on a mental state. As long as i understand he did something about the part of his life which i am not familiar with and was before me. Something he called he did something bad. And which he could not really bear with. Of course i took it personally and get mad. I is not a proper delay. If I had not called him since i now all the door passwords and even the place where he hides the keys. I would be there at his place without calling. This was not a respectful way to behave. I just delete his number.

The night after i was out to meet with a friends of mine which was indeed a mutual friend. And suddenly I saw him hitting the 2. bottles bottom (whiskey) and totally wasted. There becomes my inner war to reflect him my anger or to show him the Rootstock, i was already feeling for him. Rootstock won. I just go to him and ask 'ok man i am really mad right now but i know that it is my eo speaking. ' and ask if he is ok or not. By the way was really exhausted. anyway we started to talk in a deeper way that we never had before. As a man to man exempt from the gender. He apologized may be thousand times about making me sad. That i just hit that period asked me to forgive him and give him another chance. And of course realize that i am not the same person. I was there with him but i was not feeling the same way. He asked me to share with him but i was not feeling like screaming it out what he was already hearing. We were both drunk. In the morning he was really more than better. Behaving like he is ready to be there with me. But this time i was the one who is not sure. So i casted 2 questions.

Where we are now and what is the future of this relationship?

61.2.3 to 37

How should i act?

6.1.6 to 58

Thank you for sharing with me

 

[nikisanders]

Hello,

I would like to post the recent news about my case. It may help others.

After my casts I could not hold myself and called him. after 1 week that we had our last call. He answered the phone by asking if i get cool down or not? I our last call it was my birthday nite (thursday) but i was to celebrate on weekend. I asked him to share a couple of drinks but he had some other family plans so he could not join me which i did not like. So he thinks that i was mad at him and did not want him on my birthday cause i did not call him back to ask if he is going to be at the party or not. I did not buy it of course. Anyways and at that call we decided to meet at monday. We again have spoken on saturday and he confirmed if we going to be together on monday or not.

But when we reach monday I called him 1 hour ago of the meeting time and he answered in a very bad situation. He apologized thousand times and told e that it is not possible for him to socialize at the point he was standing on a mental state. As long as i understand he did something about the part of his life which i am not familiar with and was before me. Something he called he did something bad. And which he could not really bear with. Of course i took it personally and get mad. I is not a proper delay. If I had not called him since i now all the door passwords and even the place where he hides the keys. I would be there at his place without calling. This was not a respectful way to behave. I just delete his number.

The night after i was out to meet with a friends of mine which was indeed a mutual friend. And suddenly I saw him hitting the 2. bottles bottom (whiskey) and totally wasted. There becomes my inner war to reflect him my anger or to show him the Rootstock, i was already feeling for him. Rootstock won. I just go to him and ask 'ok man i am really mad right now but i know that it is my eo speaking. ' and ask if he is ok or not. By the way was really exhausted. anyway we started to talk in a deeper way that we never had before. As a man to man exempt from the gender. He apologized may be thousand times about making me sad. That i just hit that period asked me to forgive him and give him another chance. And of course realize that i am not the same person. I was there with him but i was not feeling the same way. He asked me to share with him but i was not feeling like screaming it out what he was already hearing. We were both drunk. In the morning he was really more than better. Behaving like he is ready to be there with me. But this time i was the one who is not sure. So i casted 2 questions.

Where we are now and what is the future of this relationship?

61.2.3 to 37

How should i act?

6.1.6 to 58

Thank you for sharing with me

 

[nikisanders]

anyone to help?

 

[diamanda]

Where we are now and what is the future of this relationship?
61.2.3 to 37
There's definitely a love story between you, with lots of good but also bad moments.
You both play dominance games over each other, and this feels familiar to both of you.

How should i act?
6.1.6 to 58
Definitely stop arguing and negotiate a better deal with him.