Relationship question - 25 > 20

[mc123]

Hi all - I asked the iching if there was some way I could get back with my ex, after previously being told to persevere my query was really "am I doing it right? Am I on course?".

I got 25 with moving lines 1 and 4 taking it to 20. Any help would be appreciated.

 

[Cathalina]

Hi MC123. Hmm... I don't think this is neither too promising nor is it too negative. In the past I have asked "are x and I getting back together?" and have actually received the Return hex. Though it is debatable if it was an insight to the future or if it was something I knew all along (my ex didn't know what he wanted and was prone to return to his exes). In your case... I see mixed signals. It seems like it IS possible (hex 20 - contemplation, someone is thinking about it). I'm not sure if line 1 is advising you it isn't too likely or you shouldn't want to or if it's simply telling you to loosen up and be flexible. HOWEVER, line 4 worries me... that sounds like a warning that maybe a reconciliation is not a good idea (but doesn't imply if it will happen or not). Sorry but I don't think the I-ching is really indicating one way or the other... there's potential, but that's not uncommon. I wish I could be of more help. Good luck!