Relationship question 5.1.2.3.5 > 2

[triple3]

Hi everyone, I need some help from everyone/anyone on a query that got me stuck, since I'm asking about someone else rather than what I should do. The question was "what does she see in me"

And I got hexagram 5 lines changing at 1,2,3,5 and secondary hexagram as 2

I am a little confused, I guess the answer would be very obvious if my question was "should i court her" or "what should i do to court her" or is the Yi telling me to wait and try to build on the relationship?

5. Hsu - Waiting (Nourishment)

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----- above K'an The Abysmal, Water
-- --
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----- below Ch'ien The Creative, Heaven
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The Judgement

Waiting. If you are sincere,
You have light and success.
Perseverance brings good fortune.
It furthers one to cross the great water.

The Image

Clouds rise up to heaven:
The image of Waiting.
Thus the superior man eats and drinks,
Is joyous and of good cheer.

The Lines

Nine at the beginning means:
Waiting in the meadow.
It furthers one to abide in what endures.
No blame.

Nine in the second place means:
Waiting on the sand.
There is some gossip.
The end brings good fortune.

Nine in the third place means:
Waiting in the mud
Brings about the arrival of the enemy.

() Nine in the fifth place means:
Waiting at meat and drink.
Perseverance brings good fortune.

2. K'un - The Receptive

-- --
-- -- above K'un The Receptive, Earth
-- --
-- --
-- -- below K'un The Receptive, Earth
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The Judgement

The Receptive brings about sublime success,
Furthering through the perseverance of a mare.
If the superior man undertakes something and tries to lead,
He goes astray;
But if he follows, he finds guidance.
It is favorable to find friends in the west and south,
To forego friends in the east and north.
Quiet perseverance brings good fortune.

The Image

The earth's condition is receptive devotion.
Thus the superior man who has breadth of character
Carries the outer world.


Thanks!!

 

[willowfox]

How about she sees you as sincere, trustworthy, honest but too slow and cautious.

 

[triple3]

How about she sees you as sincere, trustworthy, honest but too slow and cautious.

Hi Willowfox. Thanks for your thoughts on this, but is that what you think the YI is saying? Slow and cautious, after having been like well, bitten too many times, I think it comes in as a natural defence mechanism.

Looking at your view on this, I think the slow thingy is in line 3. in the mud, a chariot could be halted and a man could be slowed down.

Could share your thoughts on line 1 - "It furthers one to abide in what endures"
To endure, something that could last... hmmm...