Relationship Question: I Don't Know If I Belong With Her?

[serchjing]

Happy Sunday all!

I've been dating a girl for about 9 months now. We both are in love with eachother, our communication is better than I've had in most of my relationships. However, there are areas inwhich our communication isn't that good. At times I feel my sexual needs aren't being met, and we seem to have been fighting a bit as of the last several weeks.

I know that no relationship is "pefect", but their are times that I feel that perhaps we don't belong together. I asked the Yi the following:

"At times I don't know if I belong with Maura or not. Please show me what I need to know"

Hex 32 6-5th, changing into Hex 28

What is 6-5's meaning?

In Hex 28, if the "ridgeploe" is warped, is the Yi blatantly telling me to move on?


Thanks all. Ah matters of the heart.

Mirror Saw

 

[ravenstar]

"At times I don't know if I belong with Maura or not. Please show me what I need to know"

Hex 32 6-5th, changing into Hex 28

What is 6-5's meaning?

In Hex 28, if the "ridgeploe" is warped, is the Yi blatantly telling me to move on?


Thanks all. Ah matters of the heart.

Mirror Saw

Hi Mirror Saw,

I'll start to answer your question and let the more knowledgable people step forward.

32.5 could be saying you are most probably the one who will either save or end this relationship. Once you have chosen a course of action, stick to it, through thick and thin.

Hex 28, This could be a no win situation But you won't know until you sit down and honestly talk to her. Don't be stubborn or strong-willed or rigid in your course of action. This could cause both of you to reach a boiling point that will either frustrate you both, or the relationship itself could go up in flames. You can't row against the tide!

Relax and detress and take an honest look at this relationship first and be truthful with yourself about it. Is it what you want? Do you feel empowered/disempowered? Is your relationship balanced or way off kilter. Are you demanding in this relationship or is she? You need to get to the truth of the matter and the answer resides in you. You only need to listen.

ravenstar

ravenstar

 

[mirian]

Hello Mirror Saw,

Could you please clarify which moving lines you actually got? I suppose that your reading is Hex 32 - 5th >>>> Hex 28.

Well, if that is the case, I would take it as the Yi is saying that she might not be the person for you. The way I see it, you will have to make a decision exclusively based on what you think that is better for you at the moment. I know that it seems a bit self-centred but I always interpret this line as an occasion when you have to act in your best interests regardless of other people involved might think or would like you to do. But since it seems that there is a lot of stress in the relationship you should avoid being confrontational.

Hope it helps.
Mirian

 

[serchjing]

Hi Mirian,

I actually got 6 at the 5th line in Hex# 32

 

[dobro p]

32.5 tells you to do what you know is right. It also tells you that the situation is a mixed blessing, like the guy who wins the lottery and breaks his leg on the same day. Which is why it's so important to do what you know is right, cuz there's a lot of ups and downs in this situation.

 

[willowfox]

"At times I don't know if I belong with Maura or not. Please show me what I need to know"

Hex 32, 5th, changing into Hex 28

Hex 32.5 suggests that you persevere, but with determination and constancy, you must merge your goals together, you need to adapt to the changing circumstances.

Hex 28 says don't let the relationship reach breaking point find a way to discuss your problems before they get out of hand. Restore the balance.

Sounds to me like your stars are playing up on you, nothing serious, just makes you doubt that is all.