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Hi polaire, welcome to posting
I asked (again) the love potential of our relationship 60.3.6 > 9
Someone knows no limits and this will turn out bad. When limits finally get applied, they will be ultra bitter. The result will be continued passive manipulation tricks. So who of the two of you knows no limits? You say he's a flirty guy. If the work-relationship limits get crossed further, this will have a bad result. I'm afraid that, like you, I don't see any love potential here.
What is for me the best way to approach this relationship with him? 30.2.3 > 38
Make as much money as you can - or even better make a 'brilliant departure' (30.2). Leave him behind and go out and party, while he laments his old age (30.3). Stay away from this creep (38).
how will evolve our relationship?
20.1.2.3.4 > 1
You're not seeing this clearly. Try to find more info on this guy, maybe even snoop. Also think back of guys with similar behaviour you've met before. 20.4 is clear - yes, you're just a guest, and perhaps soon he'll turn his flirting to yet another new guest/visitor, as he'll feel fired up by the thrill of a new person (1).
Also, there has already been all this flirty interaction between you, for quite some time as you say, with still zero result. The guy is not suitable for a loving relationship with you, if he was it would already have been obvious. In my opinion, don't waste another precious minute on him.
Well, this sounds like a classic case of a guy flirting with you, but not having any intention of getting together. Which is creepy. You, on the other hand, flirt with the guy (or in any case fancy him) and you have every intention of getting together. So the reason I called him a creep is because he's causing you stress, frustration, and anguish, all due to his pointless on-off flirting, while you actually sound honest because you feel that way and you also want to act that way. How can you see him as a fellow..? Friends are people who a) we don't fancy each other sexually, and b) cause pleasant feelings to us.I think his more a fellow than a creep, Am I not as creepy myself wondering about all of this?
Well, this sounds like a classic case of a guy flirting with you, but not having any intention of getting together. Which is creepy. You, on the other hand, flirt with the guy (or in any case fancy him) and you have every intention of getting together. So the reason I called him a creep is because he's causing you stress, frustration, and anguish, all due to his pointless on-off flirting, while you actually sound honest because you feel that way and you also want to act that way. How can you see him as a fellow..? Friends are people who a) we don't fancy each other sexually, and b) cause pleasant feelings to us.
The fact that you're growing professionally is a totally different subject - and yet, if this guy is causing you so much anxiety and frustration, be aware that if you let it continue it may have an impact on your physical health. Is work progress worth all this sexual frustration? 9 is classic sexual frustration - heavy clouds, but no rain/sex. Don't know, I would personally delete this guy from my list of possibilities, he's bad news.
Clarity,
Office 17622,
PO Box 6945,
London.
W1A 6US
United Kingdom
Phone/ Voicemail:
+44 (0)20 3287 3053 (UK)
+1 (561) 459-4758 (US).