Relationship

[a1real]

I've been dating a women for the last 5mos and i like her. I have some hesitation getting into a relationship with her due to her situation(job, car,financial)so I asked the question. Should I get into a relationship with her and i got 62.5 changing to 31. This is somewhat confusing because 62 is about smallness. Line 5 says something about no rain but 31 say to join with others. Any help would be appreciated.

 

[icastes]

62 is generally unfavorable for marriage or love (remember, the two are quite different in ancient China). Basically, 62 indicates incompatibility for marriage, and no real success in love. If there is a long delay, then failure is indicated, because the other party will probably back out. However, 31 is quite good for marriage and love. So, it might be that if you can overcome the problems you have with her, then things might turn out nicely. However, it may also mean that if you don't go along with her, then you might find yourself in much better in another love affair. The moving line in 62 indicates that if you will score a little success in an anxious situation. 62 really tells you not to advance with any major plans.

 

[cutiecat]

If her situation (a job, car financials) are more important to you then this girl, may be it is not a relationship for you. It sounds like you have conditions with her, and probably that means that she is not that important to you.

-CC

 

[pocossin]

Should I get into a relationship with her?
62.5 > 31

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Hexagram pictures: Flying Crane, Couple

62, the Flying Crane, is about ancestral influence. 31 is about courtship.

Overall judgment: Auspicious provided you can overcome material concerns.

62J
Preponderance of the Small. Success.
Perseverance furthers.
Small things may be done; great things should not be done.
The flying bird brings the message:
It is not well to strive upward,
It is well to remain below.
Great good fortune.

Take care of small things first. Would financial counseling help her?

62I
Thunder on the mountain:
The image of Preponderance of the Small.
Thus in his conduct the superior man gives preponderance to reverence.
In bereavement he gives preponderance to grief.
In his expenditures he gives preponderance to thrift.

In his expenditures he gives preponderance to thrift. Is this possible for her?

62.5
Six in the fifth place means:
Dense clouds,
No rain from our western territory.
The prince shoots and hits him who is in the cave.

Rain comes from the influence of ancestral spirits, the values you hold. To hit what one shoots for is auspicious.

31J
Influence [Wooing]. Success.
Perseverance furthers.
To take a maiden to wife brings good fortune.

If the financial issues can be resolved . . .

 

[willowfox]

Line 62.5 Should you? That's up to you but this line suggests yes, give a relationship a try and just do some plain old courting and don't worry about the other "things".

 

[a1real]

Thank you all for your responses. Ive been on the fence about this women but i think ill give it a try.

 

[danadanadana]

62.5 - 31
Your own attraction for her causes you to doubt HER! You think of HER as impractical because YOU are attracted to her. Your attraction for her makes you want to throw caution aside and giddy about love and that makes you uncomfortable, because you need to be in control and focused on daily life practicalities. If you give in to your attraction you may make an emotional breakthrough that takes you to another level of being able to love and enjoy relationship. Good luck!

 

[goddessliss]

And the outcome a year later is..........?