round 2 with possible interest

[asci_blue]

Those who helped out last time, the assistance was appriciated and led me to do more readings. As far as the car goes I did a more generic is car X right for me, got 43 changing lines 2, 4, 5 to 36. Seems like it's an okay thing to do.

My current question which I just got done consulting for was how to advance with my current interest. I got a hex 48 with no changing lines. Between my previous reading on 28 Feb (3 changing line 2 to 60) and e-mailing asking for what I needed to call, and calling twice I'm at a total loss as to what to do next. Is it time to move on or is there something I'm missing?

 

[willowfox]

"As far as the car goes I did a more generic is car X right for me, got 43 changing lines 2, 4, 5 to 36."

Hex 43.2 says to be cautious and on the lookout for problems with this car, so check it out very carefully.

Hex 43.4 this says that you are in too much of a hurry to buy the car and therefore all sorts of problems will jump out at you, so slow down and stop being hasty.

Hex 42.5 this is a warning to becareful of the seller, don't get ripped off, fix in your mind what you want and how much you are prepared to pay and stick to it.

Hex 36 I would suggest that you give this car a miss, all is not well here, better to wait for something else to show up later.


"My current question which I just got done consulting for was how to advance with my current interest. I got a hex 48"

Well, your current interest is going nowhere, so it is up to you to try again, if you really want this to happen then you have to commit yourself and make the effort. You have to show her that she can trust you and from there show that you will be able to cooperate together in the future. Take your time and have patience, she ain't going anywhere. Trying to rush her will only mess things up and ignoring her will make her think that you have left town.

 

[asci_blue]

At this point I'm not really sure how to advance. Since she's not returning any of my calls I'm tempted to go back to e-mail since I can see when she reads. You know as well as I do communication in the beginning is key.

My patience is wearing thin, it's becoming summer when I actually want to do stuff. Maybe I ought to focus more energy into getting my ride so it will be expended elsewhere.

I just did a different question based off another thread I read: What is her position in our relationship. Got 55 changing line 6 to 30. I asked my position and got 62. Oddly enough the 55 fits her quite well she seems to have cut herself off from her family as well as outside roommate friends.

 

[willowfox]

"What is her position in our relationship. Got 55 changing line 6 to 30."

Hex 55.6 I suppose she is trying to be aloof but all she is achieving is isolation by her selfish and uncooperative ways.

Hex 30 It appears that she is holding on to some issue from her past that she just won't let go off, she has made a self imposed prison which she feels that she cannot escape from, it is probably an emotional problem that she is struggling with and has decided to hide her head in the ground rather than face facts and deal with it, and thus giving her the freedom that she needs. She needs a wake up call. So, that is why there is no action from her in this potential relationship she is with holding involvement because of some problem that she won't let go off from her past.

"I asked my position and got 62."

Basically it says to relax and not push the issue, keep a low profile, and just carry on with your life as normal. Anyway, there seems to be little that you can do about the situation, accept to have patience, and to restraint yourself from any implusive actions. If you get fed up with the game, then all you can do is move on, but if you stay in the game or at least stay available, you may well get a message from her. All you can do for the present is to hang in there, that is if you don't get throughly fed up.

 

[asci_blue]

I can't say I agree with the selfish parts. What I know for facts are: She generally works 6 days per week at ~40 hours. She teaches a dance class Tuesday nights, and she's working on getting into a nursing program. I'm not sure how much I want to disagree with the assessement of 62, based off my various translations it says don't go for anything big. But how does one define 'big'? Is a phone call or e-mail big? Is a date big?

As for any emotional issues I can't say that I know of any. One self imposed limitation might be her thing with being set up by other people. Whether I want to admit it or not it was her sister that introduced us and who at one time was pretty blunt about trying to set us up. I'm not sure if she would still group my attempt as a third party since I did approach her in the end on my own but it was going to happen anyway and in part due to what her sis (who's one of my roomies) said to her.

On that wakeup call note..I'm tempted to try giving that to her myself. I think once I recover a little more from this last month I'll have to use more of my standard game for this situation.