Separating ? Is time wise ?

[Schmetterling]

My marriage has been getting progressively worse over the years, I think it has reached it’s peak. I discovered living with a serial cheater. I have been hesitant to leave over the years, finances, children involved,not having much of a support system and missing a astable career due to being moved around by my husband, making me fearful of separating. When I consulted the i-ching this morning asking about outcome if I leave, I received hexagram 1 2.3 converting to 25. Overall it is an encouraging hexagram and I read a positive outcome but was wondering if more experienced members could lend me a hand in interpretation?:bows:

 

[ginnie]

Part of the message of moving line 1.2 is to see "great people." Perhaps it would be best if you saw a counselor of some sort about your marriage. How many children do you have?

 

[lysithea]

Hi Schmetterling, I was snooping around and your name caught my eye, so thought I'd pitch in to help a butterfly
So, the question was what would be the outcome if you leave.
Line 2 is telling you that things are going in the right direction, meaning that you are probably making the right decision, but that maybe you are not quite ready to take the leap (maybe some unfinished business?) as Ginnie says, there's advice to meet great people, so maybe the Yi is telling you that even though the outcome would most certainly be a ood one, the advice is for you to lawyer-up or to surround yourself with people who can help you in order to come up with the best strategy.
Line 3 on the other hand says that you are starting to gain more influence (perhaps you already consulted with someone regarding this or your S.O. is starting to realize that you are done) and it is advicing you to continue with your plan, but also to focus. I'm thinking maybe someone (perhaps even your husband) might try to convince you to change your mind. another advice of this line is to be mindful not to be using this as to attract attention to yourself.
So, bottom line I think that what the Yi is saying is that even though it's probably not the time for the actual separation, once you make up your mind you should definitely start planning and make your moves to make it happen, because it would be the right thing for you. But, that you must be absolutely sure of what you want